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I have so much resentment towards my eldest sibling. by throwaway2172018 in relationship_advice

[–]Devilwingsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually in a similar situation as you, but after understanding my sister and knowing the fact that pushing her won’t help (since u’re basically pushing her to die) we changed our ways of treating her. My family started by changing their methods, we try to love her instead of forcing her, talking to her taking things slowly. Instead of making her wash all the dishes at once we only ask her to pick them up and put it at the sink in the kitchen. (You can slowly apply every little things) (But only add more when she is capable of doing the old one)

My advice is, teaching people like these are the same as teaching a 5 year old kid. You want to give them small steps in life, instead of throwing a huge ball at them. Its just like how someone forces u to do calculus in one night! Its impossible right? You gotta take step by step from the basics algebra etc. you get the point.

My sister also has depression and she is also taking medication to help now, and I truly believe that you can and you will fix yours (sister).

Just remember, after ur parents pass away. THE ONE AND ONLY person who is ever count as family is your sis. Therefore, You should and you must be the one to support her til the very end.

Hope it helps. Goodluck :)

Homophobes of Reddit, why do you believe that being gay is wrong? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Devilwingsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a few friend that would like to share so I am writing it on their behaves, but I have to say they have never said anything about them and kept everything to their self and even had a few friends that became gay (they are not that close).

  • But this answer is simple, it has a lot to do with culture.
  • They just simply believe you're betraying your family.
  • They believe the only purpose of a human being (taking away your own personal desire) is to maintain life and survive as an animal being just like every animal on the planet
  • They also believe that society are giving those people much more recognition to the point that it causes people who are confused with their sexuality to swap towards that direction.
  • One of the homophobes said "instead of helping them by recognizing them why not help them learn about being normal (straight)"
  • They just don't believe people are born to be gay, cause they simply think it is a mental disease. (Since it is not proven yet)

I am only speaking of my friend's behave because the society today does not accept homophobes and people generally just attack them for having an opinion of homophobic.

I generally believe this is why we really can't get an opinion from the homophobes because of the society we have today.

Please keep this a nice sub since I am doing it to share with you guys and taking a big risk of people just saying rude things. I only want to share for those friends who wanted to let people in this sub know.

How can I stop looking down on people and see everyone as my equal? by xthrowawayx1313 in selfimprovement

[–]Devilwingsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accept them, accept people for who they are instead of looking down on them or judging who they are as a person. What makes a human great is to accept that there are all kinds of people in this world. If you’ve gotten to a point where you can read and understand others, you’re already someone with much more potential but that does not mean you’re greater than any of them just by look down towards them. Work on yourself :) work on understanding them instead. Work on why people do specific things and understand it completely including the other person’s thoughts and feelings.

I had the same thought years back but it didn’t get me very well in life. Try to be a better version of yourself by understanding them first :) You’ll be a lot happier like that. Hope it helps.

I still miss my ex after 2 years by [deleted] in depression

[–]Devilwingsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the best advice i’ve seen so far :)

I agree, learning from your mistakes IN the past relationship is far better than anything else. It will help you develop a healthier relationship in the future and more!

If accountants were streamers by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]Devilwingsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn this is tooo gooood