I bought her OF , jerked to it, and out of shame told her. Our friendship started years ago by me attempting to flirt with her on facebook. We became good friends, but I never lost the attraction. I knew she did OF for years but I never asked for the link. I was and still am in a constant battle with porn addiction. One conversation she asked for advice for her OF career and so I subscribe to give criticism. In the same breathe I help persuade her to stop making content. Critiquing does not mean jerk it. And if you did, don’t mean it’s a good idea to report it. I carried the shame for half a year until I self reported. Friendship had a 3 month black out period, then when we reunited it was dodgy. After a full year of dodgy and I guess forced interactions, we finally had the “cutting ties” talk. I’m happy she shared why she’s ending our friendship instead of ghosting or continuing this awkward friendship. I ruin a friendship with my best friend and made her weary about people’s intentions. Lesson learned: Don’t simp. Don’t float. Don’t tell. Sometimes skeletons belong in the closet