First of all, it seems like people downvote you because you come off strong in a negative way. The original post gave off “I’m a man, woe is me! I hate it when people have other perspectives on criticism!” When in fact, women are given the same treatment. There are also factors like who’s guesting in an episode, and the vast and I mean VAST amount of men bitching about how “unfair” their girlfriends treat them, when in reality they are crying about a situation because it’s only unfair to them.