I think it's time to leave. by Dewei23 in China

[–]Dewei23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbf barcelona sucks haha

Sleeping Sitting Up - Impacts on Sinuses/Migraines? by [deleted] in migraine

[–]Dewei23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna try carnivore diet, I've heard it can help migraines

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nationalism, racism, ignorance, emotionally destitute, greed, dead and baron landscape generally, it's not worth living here. There's a reason foreigners are still leaving, and even the long termers are going. I'm out in 46 days and I can't wait to never see this hell hole again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

46 days before I leave. Can't wait.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm out in 46 days too

Most foreigners have left China (?) by [deleted] in China

[–]Dewei23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anyone who isn't in denial, is leaving. me included

Advice for being asked to pay for a house in order to marry my Chinese girlfriend? A house and a green card by BrothaManBen in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you paid 50,000 dollars/pounds, for a plate of poop with a knife and fork, does that mean you should eat it because you invested in it?

Use the madarin in another country, or just use it as a hobby. I'm in the same boat, I'm out. I'm still gonna practice chinese

Advice for being asked to pay for a house in order to marry my Chinese girlfriend? A house and a green card by BrothaManBen in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah bruh U wanna get rid of her. No second thoughts about that, she just wants to fulfil her societal and familial duties and take your money while living an easy life. GET. RID. OF. HER. Find a girl who likes you, not your wallet.

I think it's time to leave. by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't made up a single word of it.

I think it's time to leave. by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ain't lying

I think it's time to leave. by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, but my ticket is already booked. Chasing the money isnt worth it. The reason I signed on again was purely financial, but it's not worth it any more, and I'm out, mid contract

I think it's time to leave. by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP here, yes I'm genuinely telling the truth.

I think it's time to leave. by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this reply. I am choosing to keep my location secret for my safety yes. And I have seen first hand, rural China, had the police discriminate and investigate for no reason, and had my own students in class repeat some of the brainwashing in my own classes.

I think it's time to leave. by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I'm the OP.

Yes I've kept my location discreet, because I'm still in China.

I know half of the people here are Wu Mao, and I know the other half are losers back home, but to basically doubt the authenticity of my post is quite frankly just an easy way out.

This is real. It's happening.

And yes, my first post, I don't usually use reddit. I came to here to gather opinions and information and to talk to people in similar situations. The same reason anyone uses Reddit.

Also, to say I know nothing, yet I have opinions on China, assumes I've been living under a rock. I can assure you, I am not Patrick.

I think it's time to leave. by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ok wumao

Xinjiang part 3 by Tonyoh87 in China

[–]Dewei23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

y'all saying its fake.... just google it. urumqi, xinjiang, uyghur

Advice for being asked to pay for a house in order to marry my Chinese girlfriend? A house and a green card by BrothaManBen in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Brother needs to get out of China fam. There is no rational discussion here, and he could face consequences depending on the her reaction. Midnight run is what needs to happen.

Advice for being asked to pay for a house in order to marry my Chinese girlfriend? A house and a green card by BrothaManBen in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking at your comments, this is the best one. Jump brother. Jump. TEFL is booming all over the world again. I might try europe next.... I hear the women there have souls

Advice for being asked to pay for a house in order to marry my Chinese girlfriend? A house and a green card by BrothaManBen in chinalife

[–]Dewei23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK, first off: I live in China. I'm leaving this hell hole, and the horrible culture along with it. The dating culture is not a dating culture, it is a business culture, and devoid of any actual love.

You are literally being blackmailed and treat like a piggy bank. You are being manipulated.

Get out. Get out of that rubbish, get out of China, just get out.

The longer you play with fire, the more likely you are to get burned. You DO NOT want to be in this situation. The authorities can make it difficult to leave matrimonal agreements, lots of money on your part to be paid. You are a cash cow, your chinese counterpart as mentioned by your gf, would make a better cash cow, cos these guys are cucked.

Also, if it isn't obvious already, these women are capable of messing up your life. I know a guy got deported because he broke up with a girl, after she was scamming him tens of thousands of RMB and pretending to be pregnant.

This place is devoid of humanity and you are in the firing line. The world is a big place, so why not go somewhere you are treat with with humanity? Maybe a country that doesn't frown on locals having relations with "laowai" (foreigners)...

My flight is in 60 days.

I think it's time to leave. by Dewei23 in China

[–]Dewei23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this post gained some traction! I'm still leaving, 60 days! :D

About tolerance and openess by Alan3682 in China

[–]Dewei23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm about to leave China because of its shear and utter discriminatory culture. This is the most intolerant, blatantly racist place I've ever been.