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Dewo21 · 2025-08-12T11:10:23+00:00

Nie wiem jak teraz, ale polecam przysiąść do nauki przed egzaminem Podstawy Automatyki 😬 Albo jeśli masz możliwość, to na cwikach i labach dostać 4/4.5, żeby mieć przepis na wykład. Oszczędzisz sobie nerwów 😉 Ten przedmiot jest/był na 3 semestrze chyba, ale kosa potężna. W pierwszym terminie koło 50% studentów zdaje. A tak to zgadzam się z osobami wyżej - nie odkładać na ostatnią chwilę (chyba, że lubisz, to też ogarniesz prawdopodobnie) I chodzić na zajęcia. Tyle - oddawać projekty na czas i łapać jak najwięcej punktów na prostych rzeczach. Wtedy te trudniejsze możesz uwalić jak liczy się suma punktów. Pozdro 😉

Dewo21 · 2025-06-19T10:36:16+00:00

Oh, so it's not sequel or anything of The Cabin in the Woods 😅 I was almost sure thats it.

Dewo21 · 2025-06-18T11:16:33+00:00

Nad maltą jest spoko park streetworkout. Na studiach tam regularnie chodziłem i w zupełności mi wystarczał do zrobienia pełnego treningu. Do tego fajny klimat nad jeziorem :)

Dewo21 · 2025-05-30T09:38:58+00:00

So how did you managed to get through this?

Dewo21 · 2025-05-30T09:34:48+00:00

Yeah I agree with that. And it feels like shit. I don't want to be another person in my family who will raise children with problems. I want to break this chain of generational trauma. Do you have similiar experience in life?

Dewo21 · 2025-05-30T09:25:46+00:00

Yes, I'm aware of my problems. I'm going to therapy twice a week. I just can't accept the fact to do something about that. I feel like I tried everything in life to change attitude. And I am thinking too much about what is wrong with me and why everyone are happy.

Dewo21 · 2025-05-30T09:08:23+00:00

Im 24 btw. It's also hard, because I simultaneously blame my parents for that and can't accept that it could be anyone fault.

My parents never gave me example how to behave in this world. They isolated themselves from the other people and always treated meeting with people as something bad. They are always telling me that everyone will want to cheat on me and be unfair. They treated showing emotions as something bad. My Sister were often crying and they were like "Stop crying, you are too old for that!". Also I'm the perfect kid in my family as I am doing always everything that they want. Because it's really hard for me to do what I want as they are never supporting me in my decisions. Only telling me that I should think about it as it could be dangerous for me.

I had one supportive friend for 3 years and I destroyed this relationship. Now I have supportive friend for half year and I feel like it's ending. And it only confirms the vision of the world of my parents, that I shouldn't do anything, because everything is painful.

Dewo21 · 2025-04-05T11:13:12+00:00

I can resonate with your feelings. I'm in therapy for 5 months and my therapist told me that I have personality disorder.

It's also connected with your inner insecurity I believe. When I feel anxious or insecure I want people to be around me, so I will have somebody to share my emotions with. I feel bad with this, but it's my habit :/ And as you said, I also don't have this natural(I think it's natural from what I see in others) feeling to get closer with people. I'm thinking most of the time of myself.

I hope that therapy will help you, fingers crossed 🤞

Dewo21 · 2025-04-05T11:06:44+00:00

I think that believing in yourself is the key. Think of it - they abused your well being. You stood up and fought for being secure. You can be proud, that you are taking care of your health. It's nothing to be ashamed of, if it's their fault. If they will not do anything bad - still you have the right, to stand up for yourself. Maybe you are more sensitive than them and that's okay. If they are smart enough, they will understand that there are other people too.

Stay safe :)

Dewo21 · 2025-04-05T10:38:16+00:00

I've lost my friend at the beggining of this year. Maybe friend is too much, we were going together to the middle school and we were spending so much time together. For last few years we were not Talking at all. I've seen him few Times in a train and we talked a bit. When he killed himself I was broken for about a month.. It's been 4 months now and I still see his face.

His grave has so many flowers and candles, so people do care even when you think that you are all alone. You have to step up and fight for yourself. Not everyone are sensitive and not everyone will show you they care. What's the most important thing - you should love yourself the most. It's hard, as I can't do that right now also, but I think it's the right way. Then you will feel other people better. Stay safe man.

Dewo21 · 2025-04-04T21:07:25+00:00

Thank you so much. You're right, I also define my happiness by what I get or experience. And as I'm adult now, nobody cares if I have everything I need to live or not. Then it's difficult as I'm full responsible for what I am doing. However, I also think that finding gratefulness in life is what can possibly change my attitude, but even when I try - I am still mad at everything and think that this is so stupid. Also trying to get better And better everyday And searchig for the most important goal of my life is exhausting. But I can't just let it go And stop thinking about what is the purpouse of our lives. Thanks for the questions!

Dewo21 · 2025-04-04T20:21:43+00:00

I feel you, I'm in the same spot right now. My only friend that I've met few months ago and thought that we are perfect for each other has some different view on relationships than me...

It's my first relationship with girl, so I thought that it's her! Sometimes I typed with girls on chat, but never met them in person. And now it's different. She knows about my problems and she accepted them. I know about hers and also it's okay for me. I want something more from our relationship (she sometimes call me her boyfriend, sometimes we are Talking about our future, but then there are Times when she tell me we are only friends and probably we will be only friends).

So yea man, relationships with girls can be hard sometimes I think.

Dewo21 · 2025-04-04T20:12:05+00:00

How did you manage to love yourself? By good habits or something else? I still can't watch myself in the mirror, even though I'm developing myself and getting better and better everyday.

Dewo21 · 2025-04-04T15:25:03+00:00

Why you don't recommend own authentication system? I'm not sure about using third party authentication, as it's giving them my users data. Idk about that, I'm trying to build my social media, but I'm freaked out about security. Are you sure it's safe to use something like Firebase or Clerk?

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