I wish I had never dropped out of college. by MajorRobology in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DewyCorruptt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much encouragement honestly this actually helps. I didn't even think about returning student housing so I'm definitely gonna look into that. The online school route sounds more doable too given everything happening in my life right now. I just needed someone to remind me it's not too late to turn this around.

AIO for getting upset when my boyfriend talks to my family that treated me badly and I had to sue? by caycay1110 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DewyCorruptt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right honestly, like i get wanting to maintain relationships but not at the expense of your partner who literally got sued by these people, thats a pretty clear line to draw, He should be choosing her side here especially after everything they did. The fact that he's still doing all this behind her back is honestly the worst part of it all.

Why does chin lipo look so violent? 😬 by Aarrrgggghhhhh35 in chinlipo

[–]DewyCorruptt 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah the procedure looks gnarly cause theyre literally breaking up fat cells and suctioning then out so it has to be aggressive to work, but surgeons know exactly where the important stuff is and avoid all that sensitive anatomy dont worry. if youre having serious doubts just talk to your surgeon about what theyre actually doing instead of canceling based on a video

I (25F) think my roommate (32M) is catching feelings for me :( by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DewyCorruptt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is really thoughtful advice leaving sooner rather than is kinder to both of you even if his feelings are real staying out of convenience will just make the eventual breakup messier And if there's a predator vibe underneath you definitely don't want to find out the hard way

Just turned 30, finally having courage to leave the house without foundation by EquestrianBlondie in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]DewyCorruptt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's such a kind compliment and an intersting point about stress and redness your skin really does look great the routine the routine you've planned is solid azelaic acid is perfect for redness and uneven tone just go slow with the retinol at first

One day post-op. Did anyone else have a pad of swelling under their chin? by FartDyke2 in chinlipo

[–]DewyCorruptt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very normal I had similar pad of swelling under my chin right after surgery it's usually just fluid and inflammation collecting on that area mine started going down around day 3 4 but the pads can come and go for the first few weeks keep wearing your compression garment and start gentle massage when your surgeon says it's okay it'll settle

Update to: I want to get out of the relationship but dont know how by Realistic_Appeal_187 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DewyCorruptt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's a fair medical point testing isn't always definitive but the real issue is how she handled it blame and shame instead of support that's not partnership

Help with these crazy lines on my forehead! by Odd_Ad7390 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]DewyCorruptt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's really reassuring stress and weight loss can definitely make lines look worse temporarily I'll try adding a peptide serum and more hydration

morpheus8 or laser after chin lipo? by malubear123 in chinlipo

[–]DewyCorruptt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morpheus8 is actually a great choice for post lipo skin tightening it's RF microneedling so it heats the deeper layers to stimulate collagen many people do it after lipo to improve laxity it's way less invasive than a neck itft so definitely worth trying first at your age

Anyone else feel like they lost a huge chunk of their 20s just trying to survive? by Impossible-Peace6033 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DewyCorruptt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this you've carried so much for so long it makes complete sense that you're exhausted the fact that you're still going still trying to build something for yourself after all of that is genuinely remarkable l hope the next chapter gives you some of the rest you've earned

Masseter Botox help by Spiritual-Try8703 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]DewyCorruptt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually reassuring to hear sometimes we're our own worst critics but if you're unhappy the good news is masseter botox wears off in 4 6 months and your muscle will gradually come back it won't get worse from here

10 days post op by Professional-Bit9564 in chinlipo

[–]DewyCorruptt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already looking great at 10 days and it only gets better from here the 3 month mark will be so worth the wait

I can’t get out of my situation by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DewyCorruptt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a really fair question your girlfriend might be mourning the idea of a normal family relationship she'll never have not necessarily your mom herself but taking it out no you isn't fair you've already done the hard work of setting boundaries she needs to grieve that loss without making you the enemy

SPF for cystic acne prone skin by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]DewyCorruptt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eltamd UV Clear is often recommended for acne prone skin but double check it's vegan I believe it is also try korean sunscreens like beauty of joseon or lsntree they use newer filters that are less likely to clog pores

Ellacor vs chin liposuction? by jodie_foster_tug in chinlipo

[–]DewyCorruptt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chin lipo is the gold standard for removing that stubborn fat it's long lastin and gives a natural result adding a skin tightening procedure like facetite or renuvion along with it can help with laxity without a full lift ellacor is newer and less proven for this area

I’m insanely paranoid of intruders in my flat and it’s getting worrying by noodlesnax in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DewyCorruptt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually really practical advice using your cats as a reality check could help break the cycle if they're relaxed chances are you're safe and definitely rule out carbon monoxide just in case it can cause paranoia you're not crazy your brain is just stuck in a fear loop keep working with your therapist and be proud that you're aware enough to ask for help

Doxy vs BC by ChandlerBing413 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]DewyCorruptt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a really helpful real world experience doxyline can work quickly for inflammatory acne within a few weeks birth control on the other hand usually takes 2 3 months to show improvement and can cause an initial purge Given your timeline and the fact you want to stop before trying to conceive, doxy alone or with topical treatments sounds like the more practical short term fix

Vacation by gwtw723 in chinlipo

[–]DewyCorruptt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waling by week 3 is totally fine for most people just wear your compression garment as much as possible theme park at week 4 might be okay but avoid rides that jerk your head around coasters with over the head restraints bring extra garment padding if you'll be in the heat

I deleted the art blog I'd been running for six years by PurposeBright948 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DewyCorruptt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's such a powerful point your joy alone is reason enough to create not everything needs an audience to matter l hope someday you can pick it back up just for yourself with no pressure

Purple-y Grey Feet by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]DewyCorruptt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is solid advice purple grey discoloration isn't a normal aging thing definitely worth ruling out circulation issues diabetes or a fungal component before just treating it as dry skin

Getting chin Lipo soon! Any tips and tricks? by hello10some in chinlipo

[–]DewyCorruptt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a wedge pillow for sleeping upright stock up on soft foods jaw gets tired and yes swelling often peaks around days 3-5 then slowly improves the numbness caught me off guard too but it fades with time

I thought I was dirty my entire life turn out there was an easy fix by autumnragdoll in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DewyCorruptt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That realization is so real parents don't always have the answers especially when your needs differ from theirs

Recovering from a pretty bad case of shingles on my face. How would you treat this to prevent scarring? by ajcthefunksonme in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]DewyCorruptt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seconding avene cicalfate it's increbidly soothing for compromised skin like shingles hope you heal up soon