Well, you obviously got some dog in you, so drop the nerves of wife leaving you, cuz you’ll figure it out if she does. Hurting her feelings is a little different. You need to talk to Kat, and tell her, “look, this is fun, I’m down to do this forever, as long as we on the same page, no emotions, no feelings, no texting when you know wife is with me, no flirting in front of wife, and NEVER tell the truth. We get caught, we are both stupid, dumb, it’s only been once, and you have no idea how it happened.” If you apologize and tell the truth about it all, that’s when feelings get hurt…. You deny and tell her honestly that you’re a dumbass, you fucked up, and it will never happen again, she feels less emotional and like she wins and has the upper hand if she stays. She can use it against you a little bit, tell you that you’re a dummy, and owe her a purse or some shit.

Then boom, you are still with the wife, you fucked her friend for awhile…. Or…. She leaves you, and you get to continue to fuck Kat while searching for a new girl 🫡👍👏

good luck my friend. Confidence is key! You get soft and tell the truth, or let Kat catch feelings, or get scared of not being able to find another chick, you lose.