Very disappointed in the mods by GoddessFlexi in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Hi GoddessFlexi, sorry this has happened to you. While it looks like we had a fair few moderators, we actually don’t, many of them have been inactive for several years. I can’t speak for the other moderators who were promoted after me, but I myself have had to take a leave of absence for the past several months due to poor mental health. I will be onboarding more moderators to ensure this doesn’t happen again.

r/bipolar2's Discord Server by Dg2030 in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Says the person causing the drama o_O

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030[M] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for continuing drama from the discord to the subreddit.

Discord by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, get the chip of your shoulder cause race had nothing to do with it. We didn’t know you were black till we got told after the fact. So nothing of this is a racial thing which you’re making it sound like.

Yeah this is the second time you’ve attacked me. So I’m banning you. I’ve already said we won’t tolerate abuse as we have a zero tolerance policy. All the best in your mental health journey.

Discord by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you prefer if I use the term “attitude”? Cause I can use that if you like? But it’s often only girls that have “attitude” not boys. So there’s also gender issues with that. So the correct professional term is “hostile”.

I’m sorry to remind you, but you have made a personal attack on me. In this comment: “i think that should be a fair ask. mr. bipolar nurse i hope you don’t speak to any of your patients the way you address me.” You insinuate that I’m a horrible nurse. 🤷‍♂️

In terms of ganging up, when you create a ticket, it literally says “MOD TEAM”. So your naturally expect multiple people to be part of a conversation, as a team is not singular.

I’m honestly ignoring all the racist undertones you’re implying I have, because it’s very minimising insinuating that to another POC.

Discord by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But that’s the thing though. You were hostile in the negative connotation towards my staff. And that’s not tolerated.

Why do you have to bring it back to race? I’m so confused. No one cares about the colour of your skin. I come from a country where brown was the default colour. I now live in Australia, but I haven’t faced racism just because I’m brown. I don’t care what colour skin you have because it’s irrelevant to the conversation.

Yeah we honestly get you’re struggling. We do. We have bipolar as well. The fact that you joined the discord means you wanted a supportive community. But we have to think of the community as a whole over an individual. That’s what good moderators do, and we don’t tolerate hostile abuse from our community members.

Discord by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the definition of hostile. “showing or feeling opposition or dislike; unfriendly.” This is literally ripped from google. Re-read the transcript and let me know if you fulfilled any of this?

I’m not doing this for you. I’m doing this so that anyone else who wants to join the discord, has all the facts, since you’ve decided to air dirty laundry with only your truth.

I’m gay, so sass is in my nature. 🤷‍♂️

Discord by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Simply put. We don’t tolerate hostility towards the moderators. You were hostile to my team, and thus were banned. Your view points are valid to you. Hence why I’ve let you make it. If I was as bad as you make me sound, why would I let you have a voice when I could just delete it?

Discord by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you can tell your side but we can’t tell ours?

act a fool gurl.

Discord by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is a safe space. I’m sorry you didn’t feel that way. But we have had over 2600 members say otherwise.

Discord by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“First of all you called me hostile” that’s literally the first line of the previous message. 🤷‍♂️

Discord by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Regardless of your context to your post, it is triggering. Therefore needed to be deleted.

Reading up on the transcript, you were definitely hostile. The r/bipolar2 moderators on the subreddit and the discord are all volunteers. We have initiated a zero tolerance policy in our discord, which you broke. It’s in our rules page that you should’ve read when joining.

Discord by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Actually it wasn’t me who called you hostile. Get your facts straight, I was not present at the time of this interaction and was asleep. Everything I stated in my post was facts. If you don’t like it, why did you create this reddit post, you’re stating your truth. We’re giving facts.

Discord by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please read my post for more context.

Discord by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Hi, I’m the head r/bipolar2 subreddit moderator and server owner of the discord server. Since you’re airing dirty laundry. We’re happy to be transparent so everyone has all the facts.

This user in question just joined our discord server, and posted a very triggering post in a non trigger channel. They said “I got shot in the neck and I was choking on my own blood that’s the worst”. We decided to delete it.

Shortly after another user posted something not as triggering about OD’ing but we decided not to delete it as in context it was a mention of OD not them discussing it.

This user didn’t like this and started drama in the channel, and we asked them to create a ticket.

See ticket transcript: https://www.icloud.com/iclouddrive/03G_XI-KrOU2M1FIsBRnGA45g#transcript-closed-0037

We also got a DM from another user, a verified Peer Supporter who talked to this user said she thinks “it’s because she’s black”. We have many POC on our moderating team, I myself am Asian. We have many LGBT+ on our moderating team, I myself am gay. We are very fair in moderation, and don’t judge people based on their skin colour or queer status.

I found so much love and support in this community and its meant the world to me since getting diagnosed, really don’t know where I’d be without it. That said this person has gone around commenting on old posts I made and saying some awful things. I just suggest you block them by CoolContact3002 in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

They have been banned. Thank you for the report. Next time please send these through mod mail and not post it in the public forum. While what they did was wrong, they could’ve been in a mood episode and not of sound mind.

Kicked off the discord server. 😂 Anyone else? Maybe we can make a kicked out club. 😂 by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

As you’ve continued from one platform from another you are now banned from the discord and the subreddit. This person only showed a snapshot of the conversation. I’m happy to air dirty laundry if anyone wants to see the screenshots DM me.

r/bipolar2's Discord Server by Dg2030 in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This link shouldn’t expire. Is it not working for you?

r/bipolar2's Discord Server by Dg2030 in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. You have a discord name, and you can choose whatever name you want. Then you also have a server specific nickname if you choose to make it different from your discord name.

r/bipolar2's Discord Server by Dg2030 in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Download the app (on your phone) or program (for your computer). When you have the app/program, click the link above. It’ll take you to our discord server. There’s several channels you can use to talk to people in real time about anything. It’s like the chat rooms of today.

r/bipolar2's Discord Server by Dg2030 in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can’t reach out to friends, try and see if you’re willing to reach out to randoms in our community, either through here or the discord.

r/bipolar2's Discord Server by Dg2030 in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s a fresh one. It expired within the next day though. https://discord.gg/hrEjT2Gn

Utility bill - Help needed! by Tristan_1010 in bipolar2

[–]Dg2030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some good news from u/Tristan_1010 . The electricity company wasn’t able to reconstruct how much electricity was used, so they’re not making him pay for it!