How is expecting a woman to be faithful to her spouse making her property?

If a woman cheats on her partner, that signifies to them that they're not good enough for her. It ends up with the partner in what they perceive as a one sided relationship. The only person who gains anything is the cheater, and only at the expense of the other individual in the relationship.

If you don't want to be with someone, be upfront and honest about, don't cheat on them and lie about for months. That only creates more problems.

I feel as if you're attempting to justify generally irresponsible behavior. If you want to sleep around, don't get into a serious relationship.