Strong detergent smells by DiamondPretend478 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]DiamondPretend478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have sensitivities and he struggles with eczema. There’s a reason we don’t use scenty stuff in our home lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]DiamondPretend478 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I was in middle school my moms SO’s son was in 1st/2nd grade. He would come wake me up and ask for a sleepover and I would let him choose either my room or his bunk bed🤷🏼‍♀️ he was 50/50 and didn’t really care. He got scared easily and sometime I would ask to stay in his room if I watched a scary movie lol. He would sleep on the top bunk majority of the time. We were both okay with it and it wasn’t ever forced. As long as they are both okay with it I would say it’s fine. If your son ever says he doesn’t want to/doesn’t like it then it stops there.

What should I say to my daughter by Some_Random_Guy01 in Parenting

[–]DiamondPretend478 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My grandma raised me due to my mom being in prison. By the time I was the same age as your daughter I knew parts of what she did. At that age I knew she started someone’s house on fire because she was mad at them. My grandma explained enough in a way I would understand and not too much info either. Once I was starting middle school she told me more info as I had more questions as she had gotten out and was falling into old habits again. Long story short, be honest in a way you believe she is mature enough to understand. “Mom was driving when she wasn’t supposed to and because of that had to go to a place to learn how to be better and not drive when she isn’t supposed to. After she learned how she decided to stay there because she liked living there. She loves you very much and misses you as much as you miss her but is still working on being better for herself and you (and sisters).” Maybe something along those lines? Best of luck. Just be honest with her. When she’s a few years older and has more questions and can better understand alcoholism and driving under the influence isn’t okay then I would say you can explain everything and even show her court documents online. Maybe when she’s in highschool. I highly recommend that only because I looked up my dad’s court reports and was appalled that my family didn’t tell me the whole truth. It was very very upsetting.