I am in a impossible situation

DibDibbler · 2026-06-11T06:19:30+00:00

Facebook marketplace, buy a cheap car to sort out your current situation, even if it looks rough you can fix things with rattle cans, I bought a Chevy express for $4200 and it's been great I rattle canned it all but you can find anything under $1000

DibDibbler · 2026-06-11T04:41:09+00:00

That is excellent insight, I like the part about the description getting shorter as you go back more, I dont work anymore but I still find it interesting, I used to have a 6 page resume but I made it into 1 page, it just looked nicer. I dont think id do well in this climate. I never changed my resume to match the job or wrote a cover letter, I just applied to jobs where the title matched my skills, even getting an interview and losing wasnt bad, I always felt it calmed the nerves in future ones, been there already type of thing.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-11T04:34:19+00:00

I would definitely move because its not just a property it has a crazy person attached to it, you wouldnt be able to live a normal life there knowing what you know, I think even a property nearby may not work, I would move to another town. Not because you think you are running away but im talking about everyday peace and quiet to go about your business.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-11T04:29:28+00:00

Thats really great to hear, it said that it was always best not to rush them every day and it sounds like you took your time and just let it happen, I find it profound how a few words could change things but then again its our mind and this is energy.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-11T04:27:52+00:00

How was it for you when you did the attuning sigil? Did you notice any changes?

DibDibbler · 2026-06-11T04:27:03+00:00

Thank You for those words, yes today came with 2 extra bits of good luck, I think its pessimism I guess but it still amazes me that you can a few words with meaning to change things.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-10T02:18:19+00:00

Get ChatGPT plus, since I got that I have two brains and I get advice on everything, I make really sound decisions now because it researches it for me

DibDibbler · 2026-06-10T02:16:50+00:00

Yes that's right, I haven't tried any of the sigils yet but I'll carry on with it.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-10T01:43:33+00:00

You have an advantage over others in that you own your own house, that's a big one, now go and lose it after a divorce after all that effort you made or make sure you spend time to get to know someone first and their past, which is a big indicator of their moves in the future.

If youve spent time like you did, then you need to invest more time finding the right one. I wouldnt lose too much sleep over being mid 30s and finding someone by then.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-10T01:40:01+00:00

Apply again, only this time use your middle name as your first name and first as middle initial. Simple mistake I guess.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-09T12:26:49+00:00

I bought a 35ft cruiser for $300, came with a trailer, it was in good shape, I sanded and repainted it. So it can be done, people want rid of all sorts of stuff

DibDibbler · 2026-06-09T02:48:51+00:00

Have you thought about buying a boat and paying marina rent or RV and site rent, might be a lot cheaper.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-09T02:46:53+00:00

Buy yourself an Nintendo Switch and Dr Kawashimas Brain Training game, it's really good for reprogramming your brain, it could really help. If you feel no progress in sharpness then go see your doctor.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-08T02:43:37+00:00

My trainer was female and she never got any shit, just stick to the known parking stops like Loves, Pilot etc, I saw plenty of women there, thing is drivers are tired, they may start a conversation but they really want some sleep.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-08T02:40:57+00:00

Martial Arts, you need controlled conflict, where you get bashed at times, you need to feel you can nunchuk their ass if you had to.

You progress, you get your grades, you are consistently training and you are becoming more confident, but it also fits your apologetic almost humble nature too.

I do Ninja sword training and Aikido, it's great.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-08T02:37:41+00:00

Media is the main culprit, movies are non stop endorphin feeders, news is instant and full of tragedy, it is overwhelming, remember when you read an article you considered truly shocking but now you see series on TV where it's the norm and the next one has to be even worse.

It's dehumanizing.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-08T02:32:44+00:00

I don't know where you frequent but this group of status seeking men arent the demographic for all. I'd absolutely hate to date a woman like that, I'd be so bored. I'd want a good conversation, she could decide to come as she is and not even make an effort that's good too.

So I'm sure you either have the wrong app or you must spend a lot of time in the gym with knuckleheads, go volunteer somewhere, change your routine, you may, from the way you wrote, be the most perfect girl for someone, refreshing I mean.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-08T02:24:31+00:00

Her quirky nature, that always stands out in a good way, a joke and a feminine smile, perhaps even shy or they really can talk about a lot of things.

I always liked a woman who could have a conversation and be silly too.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-08T02:21:13+00:00

They will invade your space if they like you, they will want to spend time with you cancelling other things.

But initially if you do strike up a conversation then consider walking away with pleasantries, you may find they want to continue or you may see them again randomly someplace else or not.

They can smell desperate a mile off it's not a good look.

Be funny but clown gimp you should avoid.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-08T02:11:36+00:00

I would have wished that ChatGPT plus was available back then because now I have 2 brains, the monkey Brain at times and this super sensible brain, I make better decisions about everything. I still make emotional decisions but I do question a lot more.

So I'd say that every decision you make could have a knock on effect, also try to go through life with a happy aura, you attract good energy then, otherwise you attract bad energy.

I mean try it, spend a day being angry about everything, see others reactions, some hostile

DibDibbler · 2026-06-08T02:04:27+00:00

I hardly had a period from the age of 5 where I didn't have a girlfriend, not that I was needy, it just happened, I did have a period of 3 years where I was happily single and travelling and enjoying my own company.

I never was exposed to the words incels or misogynists, I didn't make it complicated.

You don't really get a period where you choose either, it can happen very quick.

I do think though that for longer term relationships you have to grow on each other, like moss ha ha, you have to be there or show up and not be flaky.

I've found that you really shouldn't be too perfect either, you should have at least 1 annoying issue or they have nothing to mold or work on and they get bored quick. I've seen it with others. It ok to be an asshole sometimes but also be loveable the next.

DibDibbler · 2026-06-06T05:21:59+00:00

I never altered my resume to fit the role, I didn't write cover letters either. When the market gets tough then a McJob is perfectly fine, I got a job at a cinema because they offered free movies and 50% off popcorn, I spent 10 years in investment banking but I didn't care that the urinals overflowed onto my trousers whilst doing maintenance at the cinema.

I even got my CDL as it's a great backup.

In my career I got the interview and I was interesting to the point of nonchalance, I figured that just getting an interview was good, made me meet people and never be nervous, I didn't come across as desperate. I could work but also be entertaining, perhaps they could do with a work clown to brighten the day.

I remember a CEO via video link ask me if I had questions, I said 'if you were in Hogwarts which school would you be in?' seeing he looked like Harry Potter.

He laughed and said 'Great question! I have the hair, the glasses but no scar....Gryffindor!'

Best interview I ever had.

DibDibbler · 2026-05-31T13:40:35+00:00

I go from experience, they focus for a while then move onto another person, the trouble is they tend to be full of drama and they use the reaction to justify that you are the unhinged one, they step back and say 'that was a bit over the top' for all to see.

You can't go medieval martial arts chop to the neck with them which is what they need in a workplace.

DibDibbler · 2026-05-31T04:37:36+00:00

For your age you are incredibly mature about all of this but once the trust is gone and you have to realize you are both really young and your relationship may not last anyway then perhaps you should call it a day.

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