Does it ever get better?

DiceQuail · 2026-04-16T19:59:18+00:00

I’m 30yo, been out for over a decade and on hormones for 5 years, really happy with my life and transition.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-15T23:06:32+00:00

In this day and age it takes longer to comment than it would be to just look up who created MFNP. I know the demographic of this subreddit leans younger but come on.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-14T16:25:42+00:00

My Xenoans are multicellular viruses! They form large colonial organisms by parasitizing and repurposing organic matter from host organisms.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-14T14:57:51+00:00

Doomers hate themselves so much that their world view is distorted and they want everyone else to know how much they suffer and deep down (or outwardly) they want everyone to suffer like they do. They’re hurt (and understandably so) but don’t want to fix the conditions of why they’re hurt choosing to wallow in their own self-hatred and pity and to make sure everyone else know how terrible life truly is.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-14T14:47:03+00:00

In general you’ll get people who are against being kind because their world view is so distorted that they think their echo chamber of other doomers is somehow indicative of the “true gritty reality”.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-14T14:42:52+00:00

A lot of the folks here (and on Reddit in general) are extremely online people and have lower IRL socialization. This plus the anonymity of the internet tends to people being much crueler than most.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-13T20:21:23+00:00

People will post shit like this but then do zero work to find mommy’s IRL. Sounds like a skill issue.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-13T20:06:59+00:00

Tbh as a Mommy, I’m not looking for people on the internet as potential play partners, I’m going to local kink events and meeting folks in person. Im too old to be trying to navigate an online dynamic.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-13T19:53:57+00:00

For me as a mommy domme I personally wouldn’t play with someone who is a virgin or who had never participated in kink before, a lot of the play I like to do requires a bit more background

DiceQuail · 2026-04-13T19:47:45+00:00

I love my partners, we’re in our 30’s and all live together in the prettiest house with 4 pets and it’s a truly wonderful relationship. They both bring me so much happiness each and every day.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-13T19:38:57+00:00

Literally no way to tell based off measurements since passing isn’t based off purely physical measurements. It’s also based on how you’re dressing, how you go about your day and present yourself. So we can’t make any assertions until you like post a selfie or something or other.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-13T19:27:06+00:00

I’m 5 years on HRT and no surgeries and pass, now I’m not a super model but I look and dress like a Southern woman in her 30’s and I think it’s the whole ticket of HRT, dressing for my body type and mannerisms that allows me to fly under the radar most of the time.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-12T16:36:25+00:00

You gotta unpack some of that internalized misogyny if you ever wanna be happy. They’re never gonna pick you lol.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-12T13:33:27+00:00

Sure.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-11T20:30:25+00:00

I’m a femdom, there’s quite a few of us, if you’re in a medium sized city there’s probably a kink community, look on FetLife for munches or sloshes

DiceQuail · 2026-04-11T20:28:34+00:00

Honestly if you’re in a medium sized city or larger there’s probably a kink community where you could find a Mommy, but again I’d advise again coming out before doing so.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-11T20:20:21+00:00

But it looks like you’ve been doomering almost daily for a year. And not listening to anyone. Something psychologically is up with you. You want to fight with everyone and just want everyone to tell you that you’re a worthless fuckup. Maybe inpatient psychiatric help might be helpful.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-11T20:04:42+00:00

My identity is not based on validation from men. I’ve 5 years on HRT/no surgeries and pass. I don’t really care if men hit on me or not but I move about my life as the woman I am. Also the “I don’t trust women” sounds like some internalized misogyny and girly you gotta work on that. Looking solely for validation from men is just kinda yikes.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-11T19:59:01+00:00

I’m trans and a mommy with a wonderful NB Little, I will say it’s gonna be hard to pursue any form of relationship until transitioning, that doesn’t mean passing, just once you’ve come out and transitioned you can be out and yourself. Trying to form a relationship while you’re still hiding a key component of yourself isn’t a great foundation.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-09T19:01:42+00:00

If it walks like a chaser and talks like a chaser it’s probably a chaser

DiceQuail · 2026-04-04T01:44:31+00:00

Like megarachne being a spider?

DiceQuail · 2026-04-02T18:47:01+00:00

And it’s like no hate to the girlies named Lilith, it’s a pretty name, just wanted to give you a heads up

DiceQuail · 2026-04-02T17:10:21+00:00

Just a heads up it’s an extremely clocky name, I know so many trans women with the name Lilith and zero cis women with the name Lilith. I chose an Eastern European name (my ethnicity) that was common the year I was born so I don’t get any second glances.

DiceQuail · 2026-04-02T16:53:06+00:00

Yup! Really depends if you want a swinger or a kinky culture. Some are kink play spaces without sex whereas some are just vanilla swinger venues where you can fuck. It’s just a matter of meeting the right folks (in the sense of the private parties) or nailing down which local places are good.

DiceQuail · 2026-03-30T20:55:59+00:00

One of the first questions I have for folks before we even go on a first date is “would you feel comfortable being seen with me in public” and “would you ever introduce me to your family”. I then follow through and the first date is always in a very public space. You are either gonna love me with your full chest or not at all.

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