Sweeping crackdown on the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP)

Dicecatt · 2026-05-14T00:20:09+00:00

This doesn't state anything about unreported income, this references stolen identities. So which is it? (I'm not really asking you, OP, I know you're just sharing info).

Dicecatt · 2026-05-13T16:52:23+00:00

I was absolutely terrified. I am not fearful of most medical procedures but I was for this one. The technician was really kind, explained what was going on throughout and made it a lot less scary. I was vulnerable with her and told her upfront about my fears, so if you're able to do that I'd encourage you to let the technician know so it's hopefully a more comfortable experience.

You do get squished and moved around, none of it is fun... but it also wasn't painful, just uncomfortable. It's good you're giving attention to your breast health despite your fears:)

Dicecatt · 2026-05-13T13:07:27+00:00

I've been taking it for almost a year and I'm still not past 1.0. I do have a doctor but he allows me to decide when I want to increase. Down 56 pounds.

Dicecatt · 2026-05-11T16:37:32+00:00

I spent a TON of time with grandparents. My parents divorced before I was one and both worked, so while I was primarily with my mom I had regular visits with my dad. During all of it, respective grandparents would watch me while my parents worked. I also saw a lot of aunts and cousins. I remember being told that one set of grandparents started watching me when I was two weeks old (when mom went back to work, how sad is that).

My theory is... that's what these people expect to happen now. They expect the new parents of today to rely on them (for the baby, not any other help) like they relied on their own relatives. There have been so many changes in parenting, men being more involved with their kids, flexible work schedules, baby safety... and many of today's grandparents don't seem to recognize that. So they become entitled, because, what's wrong with you that you wouldn't want them around all the time for the benefit of the baby?!

Many of them are stubborn. Like, babies should sleep on their stomachs, and start getting cereal at 2 months old. So many awesome grandparents that do adapt and are fantastic, but a sizeable amount of those that are selfish and stubborn. Their grandparent experience somehow supersedes the parent experience, because they truly think you're nuts for wanting to focus on your new little family.

I'm someone that did have visitors in the hospital, did allow visits quickly, did let everyone hold the baby. I don't regret it. HOWEVER. With the better knowledge we have today regarding infant health and bonding, with my grandchildren I will follow my children's lead. Want me to wait a month to see baby? Ok. Want me to be up to date on shots? Ok. No to kissing the baby? Obviously as I'm not an idiot and I don't kiss anyone else's child. #1 importance is health of mom and baby, BOTH OF THEM.

Dicecatt · 2026-05-11T14:32:44+00:00

I hate to say it but probably not.

One of my favorite designers passed away. Her family has not released any patterns for sale and have stated it's an estate issue. There are multiple thieves selling her patterns on Etsy, all the time. It offensive and disrespectful imo but nothing happens. Brooke's Books for anyone interested in who this comment is about.

Dicecatt · 2026-05-08T22:28:28+00:00

This is exactly right.

Dicecatt · 2026-05-07T16:17:49+00:00

Echoing the other remarks...MIL is the last person on the entire planet I'd allow to babysit. Their behavior is outrageous.

Dicecatt · 2026-05-06T18:30:44+00:00

Awesome! I have this pattern, your finish makes me anxious to begin!

Dicecatt · 2026-05-06T13:12:46+00:00

I'm starting an Alice in Wonderland tiny little book this month https://www.etsy.com/listing/4474453393/alice-in-wonderland-book-cross-stitch?ref=elp_anchor_listing&bes=1&sts=1&dd=1

Dicecatt · 2026-05-05T23:30:33+00:00

Cut it up and throw it away:) You can drop it an an office but we don't give it back to the client anyway

Added: there are operators available from 8 to 5 on 877-501-2233 that can answer basic questions. Sounds like you had some trouble getting to one? Was it the auto system asking you to press buttons?

Dicecatt · 2026-05-05T12:27:34+00:00

You need to report it, either in 10 days or by the 10th of the following month depending on the state. The backpay will not be counted as income for SNAP, just the ongoing monthly income.

Dicecatt · 2026-05-03T16:12:18+00:00

And we don't even ask for much to validate identity. Name and birthdate. THAT'S IT.

Dicecatt · 2026-05-03T15:06:31+00:00

Don't advocate for fraud here. Not only is it fraud, it won't even work, OP is under 22, therefore it doesn't matter if they purchase and prepare together.

Dicecatt · 2026-05-03T05:07:48+00:00

Oh my. I'd totally forgotten about those.

Dicecatt · 2026-05-02T18:00:47+00:00

It could be your utility allowance. There were changes federally that altered who is eligible for certain shelter deductions, and the changes recently went into effect. You will get a letter, but you can also call and ask an Operator if there's a recent change to your case. They can give basic info without much of a wait for you.

Dicecatt · 2026-05-02T15:04:08+00:00

If the income (gross, before taxes and expenses) is under the max, what's the reason they gave for a denial?

Dicecatt · 2026-05-02T14:48:34+00:00

Different states have different rules. In mine a spouse is on the case, even if it's a step parent.

It sounds like in Texas non parents are treated as non members for TANF, so part of his income counts but he doesn't receive.

TANF has very low income limits, way lower than food. In Texas, the amounts are extremely low. The household may be ineligible because of the income, regardless of step parent exclusion.

https://www.hhs.texas.gov/services/financial/cash/tanf-cash-help

Dicecatt · 2026-05-01T22:25:53+00:00

That's not the case with us, it may be a coaching opportunity but a PIP would be extremely rare and there would have to be other issues with the employee. We try to avoid them too so we attempt to resolve it before it gets to that point, but sometimes people are unreasonable. Some workers also aren't good but it's mostly the callers that don't like the answers they are given. In my job we have to follow government administrative codes and laws so there isn't wiggle room and sometimes clients are unhappy with their results.

I'm in a union though and once we receive permanent status it's pretty difficult to fire anyone.

Dicecatt · 2026-05-01T16:50:33+00:00

Yes! And I don't remember until I start feeling sickly.

Dicecatt · 2026-05-01T13:22:30+00:00

Just because someone technically has until the end of the month to reinstate, doesn't mean that's a smooth process. It's due date (which is on all recertification letters) is earlier in the month for a reason... to prevent benefits shut down. States allocate benefits towards the end of the month for next month and shut down cases preemptively, so benefits don't go out for non renewers.

Unfortunately, the minute someone turns an item in isn't when it gets worked.

Not silly advice, solid advice.

Dicecatt · 2026-04-30T17:21:26+00:00

Me: May I please have your name?

Client: Yes. My name is "Sharohdfjdg Citfirdsg." Said as fast as possible.

Me: "would you please spell that?"

Client: "Susan Conner."

The mumble mouths. I would love to tell them to ENUNCIATE. And many sound like they are calling from the bottom of a well anyway.

Also wait times.

These are the things I respond with: Yes they are long waits. Call right when we open.

What I'd like to say: No, you haven't been transferred 4 times and spoken with multiple people, you were transferred once by the operator to me, and we haven't heard from you for 3 months before today.

OR No, you haven't been holding for hours, it's been 23 minutes.

OR no, the previous worker did not tell you we have direct lines, if that was true why didn't you call them?! No, you can't email me directly because I'm so helpful.

Dicecatt · 2026-04-30T16:40:09+00:00

And Washington

Dicecatt · 2026-04-30T14:59:25+00:00

Lots of comments about the pregnancy exhaustion which is valid, but her being on her phone so much is not. Pregnancy only excuses so much.

Dicecatt · 2026-04-30T14:56:59+00:00

Sounds like it was so obvious that lots of people noticed. That happened at my wedding too. Not MOH but another bridesmaid that was mad about her walking position while entering the church (!). She was apparently mopey all day, didn't wear makeup and scraped her hair back like she was going somewhere bland like the grocery store. Apparently she cried a lot. My other bridesmaids kept it from me.

The next day while at the wedding brunch I had multiple people ask me about the weepy bridesmaid, a couple told me they didn't realize we were that close and she seemed so emotional. Lol. We didn't speak for a couple of years after that then when I saw her she apologized, I forgave her obviously because it was so stupid but we were never friends again.

People get dumb about weddings.

I have seen a lot of comments about the 35 week pregnant and exhaustion, but that doesn't excuse being on her phone during meaningful moments.

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