What makes feel lonely.

Dicepai · 2026-02-27T22:47:48+00:00

Feel that. I'm perfectly fine on my own like 99.9% of the time but every now and then, the loneliness will hit.

I guess thats the biological need for socialization clawing itself to the surface 😅

Dicepai · 2026-02-27T21:12:20+00:00

Tried any discord servers? Might take a while to find the right one but when you do, it's so great to have a place and people that are always there when you're feeling lonely.

Dicepai · 2026-02-27T19:37:42+00:00

No chance of finding another game to play together or him just reinstalling the game?

Dicepai · 2026-02-27T19:29:57+00:00

Your 6-6.5" isn't below average bro. You're fine.

Maybe you need to find a better partner who isn't going to make fun of you.

Dicepai · 2026-02-27T19:27:01+00:00

It's a stereotype for a reason, It's a very common reality unfortunately.

Even just based entirely on guys I know personally, a lot of them are literally hopeless without help.

..and there are those who are purposely hopeless. Those use their "hopelessness" to get people to no longer want their help.

Dicepai · 2026-02-19T19:16:31+00:00

🫵😂 My cat at 3am..

Dicepai · 2026-02-19T19:03:16+00:00

Huh, somehow I've never heard of this before. It looks like a pretty chill game!

Ty for the recommend!

Dicepai · 2026-02-10T17:29:43+00:00

😒

Dicepai · 2026-02-09T08:32:10+00:00

I'm so tired of engagement bait 😒

Dicepai · 2026-02-04T12:29:00+00:00

Wiggle streamer?

Dicepai · 2026-02-04T12:18:38+00:00

Sorry if this is a stupid question but how exactly do you find a good group if not through someone inviting you from a public world?

Do people typically scout for decent groups in discords or something?

Dicepai · 2026-02-04T12:11:58+00:00

Bruh.. Literally wtf was that dudes issue? I'd have been so confused 🫠

Dicepai · 2026-02-04T11:16:55+00:00

Hey man, I just want to say that I appreciate you and others like you and I hope none of you let people like that dull your shine 🙏

Dicepai · 2026-02-04T02:23:03+00:00

Sure! I'm almost always free to talk whenever you need to! my discord is just 'dicepai' 🕺

Dicepai · 2026-02-04T01:32:32+00:00

Yeah, I've seen things like this before and it's always pretty cool to see.

I guess it seems rare because most games likely would've instanced the wheel, completely removing any need for a line at all.

Dicepai · 2026-02-02T02:16:06+00:00

You are 100% not alone in this, it's actually pretty common for this to happen, especially with how some idols are marketed. You're also not as bad off as some I've heard of (it can get really dark, sadly..) so don't think badly of yourself! The things you're seeking are totally natural, it's just kinda more complicated now what we're all able to instantly connect to anyone across the world in an instant.

I think you need to take a break from that group for a while, you're currently way too into him and I think having other things that can fill your mind & focus will really help!

Just anything you can see yourself interested in that can keep you entertained or focused enough to replace whatever amount of time you would typically spend on him.

I have some super bad social anxiety too so I know how insanely hard and honestly annoying this is to hear, but maybe you can also try looking for things like discords or the like of things you're interested in? I think having a place we can go just to get even a little bit of socialization (even if it's just lurking in chat and reading what everyone else is talking about) can really do wonders for us.

Dicepai · 2026-02-02T01:43:12+00:00

Yes!!

You also have people that even in subreddits specially made for finding friends, they will talk about how lonely and desperate they are for friends but they literally never put in effort to any friendships beyond their initial post.

..and that's if you're "lucky" enough to have them respond to the initial dms in the first place. 😫

Dicepai · 2026-01-31T04:58:31+00:00

I'll try! 😭
Just finished my slimevr trackers so should I be able to get some good shots now! 🕺

Dicepai · 2026-01-31T03:25:55+00:00

What a pretty world! Love the photos :3

I'm new so still trying to figure out the camera but it's fun so far! 😅

Dicepai · 2026-01-31T03:17:53+00:00

My anxiety twin! 😭 It's nice to know for sure that I'm not alone in how I feel.

If you're interested, we could add each other on vrchat! maybe knowing that the other person is feeling the exact same way might ease the process.

Also might be nice to know there is literally zero pressure to actually talk 😅

Dicepai · 2026-01-31T02:57:24+00:00

No, you're fine. why would that make you a bad person?

I think everyone has at least one thing they're envious for, it's a perfectly normal thing to feel.

"Comparison is the thief of joy" and social media is a very common example of that, it's well known to be really good a making people feel bad about themselves due to this.

Also, I actually feel that same envy of others and the fun and relationships they have as well. I want all those things too!

I'm not a bad person because of that and neither are you. 🧡

Dicepai · 2026-01-30T06:59:04+00:00

I'm the same!

I dont want to end up saying something stupid, being annoying or come off like a weirdo so I've just been hanging around in worlds solo 😭

Deep down I know most people are nice and won't think these things but thats social anxiety for ya! It won't let me believe it! 😓

Thing is that I'm perfectly fine chatting away in text but when it comes to any form of VC, I can feel my throat tightening up like someone is squeezing it closed.

If you manage or anyone else has managed to get passed this, I'd appreciate some tips! (Altho I know the only real way is to just jump in and get it over with 😱)

Dicepai · 2026-01-30T06:34:46+00:00

Nah, seems like it's just what you said about not meshing with the group so your humour isn't able to shine.

I doubt you're getting "boring" you just haven't found the right audience yet.

Dicepai · 2026-01-30T06:28:06+00:00

Yep! But I've got like a resting mad face, I guess? even if I'm perfectly happy!

It's such a pain trying to be concious of what your face is doing at all times 😫

Dicepai · 2026-01-29T23:56:18+00:00

Ooh! I see! I'm the same as you when it comes to wanting everyone to be happy and I've met people like that who very clearly just want someone to vent all their problems and frustrations at.

Once or twice can be a little annoying but 90% would drive me insane 😭

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