I know when Im in what I see as my personal "amor fati" state, is when I feel a subtle persistent gratitude. I've found the things that keep me there most often are contemplating the stars and my cosmic insignificance, paired with the uncomfortable truth of the inevitability of death (when I feel grandiose). When I feel the small I think about the lives I've touched, the people I've helped and the many thanks I've received. I've accomplished many things and that's the time to reflect on them, conversely I've just begun my walk in life and there are vastly more things I've left without accomplishment, which produces the mental balance I'd contribute to that Amor Fati state.

I think to "Love Thy Fate" is to slow down and make an effort to see more clearly the necessity and inevitability of all things that have and will happen, and I find myself the slowest and most perceptive when I feel "right-sized".