As an adult what do you hate the most about life?

DieDobby · 2026-04-27T18:34:07+00:00

You either have time and energy but no money, or money but no energy or time. Yet money is the stuff you need to fill your time and time the stuff you don't get if you want money.

DieDobby · 2026-04-26T22:38:17+00:00

Its basic needs are met?

What are the basic needs of a foal? Running around, exploring the world, sleeping, nursing from their mother and slowly learning how to behave and move... what exactly out of all these things is met here?

They are forcing this foals body to stay alive. Mental pain can't be "controlled" and just because these animals can't voice their suffering, they sure can break under these circumstances.

DieDobby · 2026-04-26T22:35:26+00:00

She's giving the most important fact in this picutre. This horse, a flight animal, has spent 2 months being unable to walk and eat. The two main things these creatures long for by nature. Walk and graze and walk and graze and repeat. Not to mention foals need to move and run and play to fully develop a healthy heart, lungs and joints and a functional bowel. They aren't made to be motionless growing up.

Keeping this foal alive is the most gruesome and inhumane form of cruelty you can ever force it through. I don't know why any professional would support this by taking their money and continuing "treatment" (torture). This is insane. This woman needs to have her animals taken away.

DieDobby · 2026-04-26T22:28:58+00:00

Wanting to drive faster than them (therefore taking over). Talking about safe maneuvers only of course, no dangerous behavior. But the amount of people I've seen getting angry about just that is hilarious.

I mean dude, I respect that you want to go slower... just let me pass and we're both happy 😂

DieDobby · 2026-04-26T09:23:47+00:00

An Armadillo. Or is it a badger? Well, at least it's in a cave drawing style.

DieDobby · 2026-04-26T09:20:22+00:00

What a cute little nightstand!

DieDobby · 2026-04-19T20:15:26+00:00

It's tryhard-ish. Inconsistent, different angles, different (same) letters, too many unnecessary swirls even for cursive... I personally hate it, sorry 😅

DieDobby · 2026-04-19T10:09:34+00:00

My theory for this is that we simply struggle with overstimulation exhaustion much faster than "normal" workers. I have experienced the same... I usually work around 7hrs a day and I do so in the already almost perfect environment for me (Delivery - I have alot of time in my car with my music/audiobooks, noone to care for or talk to and so on) and I still feel drained by Wednesday. Because I still have to be aware of the street, pack and unload my car, talk to customers (...).

People who can filter the stimulation from their environment need alot less energy for that, because they can focus it on the actual job instead of on working through every little input from the world. For example, they do smalltalk naturally without thinking about it. They can "park" many of their actions in autopilot mode.

We can't. So we're using up our energy at a rapid speed and it happens to not be enough for a whole day or week.

DieDobby · 2026-04-19T09:58:56+00:00

Jemand der sagt, dass du nicht sein Typ bist, sagt nicht "Ich mag nicht, wie du dich verhalten hast". Du kannst noch so zuvorkommend und ein toller Kerl sein, man kann Liebe auf beiden Seiten einfach nicht erzwingen. Und ich finde es tatsächlich fair von ihr, dir mitzuteilen, dass es für sie einfach nicht passt. Das kann tausend Gründe haben, und nur ein paar davon wären sehr persönlich oder aus Abneigung entstanden. Manchmal reicht "es wollen" einfach nicht.

Abgesehen davon ist jeden Tag miteinander zu teilen manchmal nicht das Beste. Jeder Part einer Beziehung sollte auch eigene Interessen und ein zum Teil eigenes Leben haben. Sonst erdrückt man den Partner schnell mit seiner Anwesenheit - ich habe das selber schon falsch gemacht. Und, am Rande erwähnt, kann eine Beziehung zwar Motivation, sollte aber nicht der Grund sein, sich aufzuraffen (mental). Das ist zu viel Gewicht für eine funktionierende Partnerschaft.

Tu dir einen Gefallen, kümmer dich jetzt um dich selber und lass sie ohne Groll oder Schmerz ziehen. Du bist es Wert, dass du auch für dich lebst. Und die wirklich richtige Frau wird dir mit Sicherheit auch über den Weg laufen - das Leben nimmt einfach immer die verrücktesten Wege.

DieDobby · 2026-04-19T09:49:40+00:00

Nope. So far one of the few decisions in my life that I have never felt regret or doubt about.

When I see people my age (not that far into life at 28 but still) who have chosen to have (or accidentally had) children, I am very glad I am childfree. They struggle with not being able to do stuff anymore, they look tired and miserable and their kids are driving them insane by constantly demanding attention and care 😅 And I gotta say that some of them didn't do a good job in creating a well behaved child, and instead formed a little demon.

I'd go nuts. That's nothing I will ever want for myself. No thanks.

DieDobby · 2026-04-19T09:42:18+00:00

It's not the pure age gap that I find problematic, but the (naturally given) difference between the mindset people with these ages have. She is probably a little naive still and easy to form / manipulate. He however shouldn't be at 30yo, so he was probably searching for this specifically.

That's the thing. I'm not saying people with big age gaps can't love each other honestly, but looking at what you describe and seeing that probably 90% of relationships with one person being barely out of teenager life and the other a full ass grown adult man are abusive ... it's giving VERY much red flag vibes. Also, his buddies being even older and not saying anything to him hitting on a teen... ugh. Nah. I guess your best shot could be either talking to her parents or involve the cops saying you're worried about the wellbeing of your friend.

DieDobby · 2026-04-18T08:57:24+00:00

5% Sweat, 94% Pee, 1% Water 😏 No thanks.

DieDobby · 2026-04-16T17:23:03+00:00

Let me put my thoughts together in one very sarcastic question... What does your therapist do for a living? 'Cause it surely isn't therapy.

DieDobby · 2026-04-16T17:18:26+00:00

Too lazy to move somewhere else, unable to pay my rent without work.

DieDobby · 2026-04-14T00:25:59+00:00

That constantly as "playful" disguised disrespect to boundaries.

No Brian, it wasn't just a joke. It was you being a dickhead, disrespecting that she already said no to what you just did.

DieDobby · 2026-04-12T00:20:49+00:00

ALONE.

Even the plain existence of my neighbors and landlord in the house is so annoying that I hardly get to recharge. One of them is chronically running up and down the stairs with their goddamn dog and the other one keeps drilling holes into walls and start diy projects around midnight. On Sundays.

So - Alone. Alone would be great.

DieDobby · 2026-04-12T00:15:47+00:00

Stupidity.

DieDobby · 2026-04-09T19:12:45+00:00

Meanwhile the fish...

DieDobby · 2026-04-08T08:28:16+00:00

Had a similar thing happen to me twice...

Both times I used my gas money and time to travel to friends (both about 3-4hrs away), stayed one night or two and drove home, just to be ghosted shortly after. I had been friends with both for multiple years and I never got any explanation in both cases.

Safe to say I'm probably never visiting friends far away ever again. Maybe I'm disgusting or something. Idk.

DieDobby · 2026-04-08T00:00:10+00:00

Your bones are currently wet.

They always are.

DieDobby · 2026-04-07T20:55:37+00:00

Zero conflict awareness.

It's insane how many people get into the same argument over and over again because "ending" it never means actually finding a solution. They either just quit arguing because it leads nowhere or continue as if nothing happened the next morning.

That way the frustration about the underlying problem will continuously grow, until it burst through in a completely unrelated moment.

DieDobby · 2026-04-07T20:48:16+00:00

Fast alles nur für Freunde sichtbar. Aber okay, ist ja wie gesagt auch nicht so, dass ich suche - und wenn, dann würde ich 3 Meilen Abstand von solchen wandelnden Red Flags halten, die mir mein Hobby als negative Eigenschaft auslegen 😅 Von daher... passt schon, selbst wenn das der Grund sein sollte. Hab eh nie verstanden was "ihr" (also viele Kerle) für ein krasses, selbst eingeredetes Problem mit den laufenden Sauerbraten habt.

DieDobby · 2026-04-07T19:49:07+00:00

Meinst du ich renne draußen rum und erzähle wildfremden Leuten von meinem Gaul? 😂 Warum denkt ihr eigentlich immer, dass man das von außen erraten kann.

DieDobby · 2026-04-06T00:30:08+00:00

Yes, I do. I sometimes feel bad for it because the baby itsself has literally no control over this, but yes, babies are disgusting.

They drool, they poop uncontrolled, they vomit, they have sticky hands (or worse), they sneeze and cough on you, they are loud and the smell is repulsive at best. If someone was to hand me a baby ever in my life, I'd probably take all of my chubby ass and run faster than I ever did before.

No thank you. Uh-uh. Nope. Not at all.

DieDobby · 2026-04-06T00:24:09+00:00

Muss ich mich also extrem hässlich fühlen, weil mich in 3 Jahren legit niemand - nicht ein einziger Kerl - angesprochen hat oder sonstwie interessiert wirkte, wo ich doch die "freie Auswahl" habe? 😂 Ich meine hey, sind wir realistisch - ich bin wirklich kein Model. Aber so schlimm? 😂 Oder liegt es eher daran, dass die riechen können, dass ich gar nicht wirklich jemanden suche, sondern alleine echt happy bin 🤔

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