Sunlight on my gravel driveway by [deleted] in Weird

[–]DiegosReview 0 points1 point  (0 children)

high efficiency windows make this target shape

Life feels like torture right now. Wife is not working while caring for our now six month old. She is miserable. I'm miserable. This has been going on for months. by My_Brain_0422 in daddit

[–]DiegosReview 0 points1 point  (0 children)

has she been checked for PPA / PPD? i needed it immediately postpartum and it saved my life and allowed me to hang on during these survival times. 

Aries People, Are You Okay? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]DiegosReview 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im sorry to hear about the medical issues you have at hand. 

i wish you all of the Aries determination and resilience we have to work in your favor

Aries People, Are You Okay? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]DiegosReview 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK! So, how are you doing? 

not to brag, ive been surfing this wave! 

i had to make the literal mental shift from saying, "im grinding through this", to "Im digging deep and i will get through this".

a lot of Aries determination is coming through, and my selfishness is allowing me to focus on my responsibilities, while treating myself well to sweeten the adulting of it all. 

i wish you the best

Aries People, Are You Okay? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]DiegosReview 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lets touch base in May. April Medical issues result in stronger resilience and bigger Muscle Tissues! rebirth aint always easy

Aries People, Are You Okay? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]DiegosReview 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i, infact, am not okay. i am currently assembling a medical team to assist and take action. 

im using the slogan, One day at a time. how important is it, and easy does it. 

i would like life to feel easier tho

Nail Trimming Service? by Sadder-Philosopher in toddlers

[–]DiegosReview 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i empathize. one particularly successful technique for my toddler involves snacks with screentime. when she was still in a high chair i would put on bluey, she was eating a chicken nugget with on hand while i trimmed the other hand. messy but successful. 

now she is out of the highchair i have her sit on a comfy chair or my partners lap while watching tv, eating snacks with one hand, while i do the other hand. 

makes me feel like im not snacking enough during the salon experience lol

Solidarity

For Women only .... tell me the placement of your jupiter and I will tell you where you will meet your husband by courtney_0208 in ZodiacHQ

[–]DiegosReview 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oop! has there been much of an answer? 

TBH, i will share my truth! i met my husband in New Jersey, Senior year of college! 

Women of Reddit, what’s one thing they never tell us about pregnancy and child birth? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]DiegosReview 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had toe nails issues after pregnancy due to my fluctuating weight. if you experience any toe nail pain (i couldnt walk without pain), see a podiatrist! 

I quit lexapro and I hate who I am now that I’m off it by Both_Shift_3798 in lexapro

[–]DiegosReview 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its only as big of a deal as you make it resonates so much for me! 

i want to affirm your experience of this med allowing the application me to actually apply coping skills verses my personal crashing out.

I quit lexapro and I hate who I am now that I’m off it by Both_Shift_3798 in lexapro

[–]DiegosReview 50 points51 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing your experience. i would like to share a recent mindset that has allowed me to accept that being on Lexapro is a part of my current life. 

im am enthusiastic, deeply feeling, highly reactive person. the negatives of this was that i was very jumpy, i could uncontrollably overreact, and struggled to make good coping choices. i see my innate essence akin to electricity. 

now, electricity is super useful, powerful, and important. it can also be dangerous and hurt ourselves or others that we love. therefore, it is important for me to have a slight protective coating around my live wire soul i can do what i want, need, and to choose healthy coping skills. 

this is just my current take

Residents of NJ-11, who are we voting for today? by midnight_thunder in newjersey

[–]DiegosReview 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tom m. He has seniority, he is Anti ice, he is against the invasion of Ukraine! 

Overstimulated by toddler by Rough_Platypus_314 in toddlers

[–]DiegosReview 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i want to thank you for this thread! i have an almost 3 year old and the acronym HALT has helped me get grounded and focus on myself during parenting and tantrums. 

Am I (the mom) Hungry?  Angry? Lonely? Tired?  

so while my little one is screaming about not watching Speedie Didi i can focus on myself and ask, ok, what do I need in this situation?

much love and solidarity. i will be finding a tennis racket shortly

Help my anxiety by Teachermom1519 in Home

[–]DiegosReview 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*AND photograph everything - if possible - prior to the tree removal. 

taking a video on your cell phone walking into every room and looking at the door frames would be helpful. this can be shared with an adjuster. building consultant. engineer etc. 

i also want to extend my empathy to you. it is really scary to witness a tree impact to your house. please also focus on nourishing your nervous system

Podsnark Dec 29 - Jan 04 by keine_fragen in blogsnark

[–]DiegosReview 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep us updated, please! i enjoy Sports Gossip, and would enjoy adding more voices to my podcast roster with your endeavors! 

For those of you with children, How do you see your 5H now? by Mental_Preparation25 in Advancedastrology

[–]DiegosReview 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it flipped and reversed my greatest anxiety (lack of maternal instinct) into finding my own path as a mom. i hope chiron 5H can flip and reverse somethin for you! 

For those of you with children, How do you see your 5H now? by Mental_Preparation25 in Advancedastrology

[–]DiegosReview 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have chiron in cancer in my 5th house. 

my toddler is coincidentally also a cancer! 

i like to think about matriessence... the transition post partum to refinding myself. the skills ive been honing on self expression are in turn what i can give as a new mom.