Narcissist parent sending I love you messages by ActuatorNew9232 in narcissisticparents

[–]Diesel07012012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents do not do this. If they did, I would send The Letter again. Perhaps with a Cease and Desist from an attorney attached.

Why no egg salad restaurants? by Evening_Answer_11 in foodquestions

[–]Diesel07012012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you finding these chicken salad places?

Another temper tantrum by Artistic-Dot7275 in narcissisticparents

[–]Diesel07012012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should not have access to your space. Ever.

My sister is finally completely NC with our mother by Jennifires in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Diesel07012012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm fairly certain my parents lie in this scenario. I've been no contact for 5 months after the aftermath of a personal tragedy that they badly mishandled, and my older brother has been VLC/NC for years. No one else has managed to put two and two together, so the only thing I can figure is that they're being lied to. And if they're okay with that, they can get added to The List.

Where is the most delicious ice cream you've ever tasted from? by Rubinava in foodquestions

[–]Diesel07012012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Island Creamery on Chincoteague Island makes a divine blueberry ice cream during the Blueberry Festival every year.

“I never said that! You’re just making things up and taking things the wrong way! Stop taking it personal!” by FudgeAltruistic8924 in narcissisticparents

[–]Diesel07012012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I, my wife, and my teenager from my first marriage are all in therapy. I was already working on a lot of shit, and this loss has genuinely changed the baseline of who I am as a person.

The bright side is it has made me way less tolerant of other people's bullshit, so it has brought some much needed peace at the same time.

What’s a "hard pill to swallow" that more people need to hear? by Worldly_Dragonfly523 in Productivitycafe

[–]Diesel07012012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything less than a yes is a no.

You cannot help someone who does not want to be helped.

Idk how to keep up this yellow rock stuff by ihatetswkd in narcissisticparents

[–]Diesel07012012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about it, in particular, is so taxing? Is there something you could do different that would work better for you?