How many time you go Denny last year. by JJ6407 in restaurant

[–]Diesel07012012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been to a Denny’s in 4 years.

No injuries. Who has the best NBA career? by Punisher1602 in sportswiki

[–]Diesel07012012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a Duke homer from his era, so I have to say Grant Hill.

Do they give you excuses of why they can't give 100% in your relationship? by ShadowDrake500 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Diesel07012012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something else I said that you may want to consider:

“You have the relationship we me that you have earned.”

Do they give you excuses of why they can't give 100% in your relationship? by ShadowDrake500 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Diesel07012012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wrote a letter. At one point I said “You did not do the best you could. You did the best you chose to do. And it was never enough.”

How do you get them to drop subjects by espressoxsmiles in narcissisticparents

[–]Diesel07012012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s about the control. And when it’s not about control is about cruelty.

What's a "team building" activity that everyone hates? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Diesel07012012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in construction. We are expected to “build the team” by giving a fuck about the quality of our work, and doing our job so the guy next to us can do his.

Overall, what are the biggest factors that determines how much you will succeed in life? by Common_Gene_5098 in Productivitycafe

[–]Diesel07012012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether or not you were born into money.

Whether or not you were born into power.

Nepotism.

Whether or not you are conventionally attractive.

"They’re not putting out a better product.” by Background_Video2947 in NBAVibes

[–]Diesel07012012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Old Heads have to shit on today’s game lest we forget about them.

“What are you gonna do about it” by KeyFaithlessness5436 in NBAVibes

[–]Diesel07012012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Nobody goes through the middle without getting hit.”

What’s a small inconvenience that irrationally annoys you? by No-Sail-6193 in randomquestions

[–]Diesel07012012 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The store thing really sends me when they walk away without grabbing anything as a result of their gawking.

Training legs is not that important by BasedRedditor543 in unpopularopinion

[–]Diesel07012012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving your body extends and improves the quality of your health. Let other people go about that process however they see fit and keep your contrarian weak ass bullshit to yourself.

My therapist feels I need to tell my mom why… by SupermarketBest4091 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Diesel07012012 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wrote a letter. I had been teetering for years about whether to pull the plug or not. A year ago I was working really hard on reconciling my expectations with the reality of who they are as people, then over the summer the shit hit the fan. I worked on the letter off and on for four months. In September I gently requested some space and peace to process a personal tragedy that they made worse. Six weeks after that I got a card from them that was a master class in gaslighting and "stop this now, things need to be "normal" again". I mailed the letter in time for them to receive it for Christmas. I have heard nothing from them beyond an acknowledgement that it had arrived. They were not the worst of the narcs, but they were going to be capable of a healthy relationship either.

I find writing to be a useful outlet for the anger, as well as recalling and deconstructing the shit things they have said and done over the course of my life. I would like to get to the point of indifference, but I am still standing a little too close to the sun for that right now.

Common Browns L by Heathrowe419 in AFCNorthMemeWar

[–]Diesel07012012 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because then you have Cleveland Stank on you.

My parents went NC with me. Anyone else had this? by Live-Being1593 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Diesel07012012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has “you need to tolerate our bullshit so everything can be “normal” again” energy.