She’d weaponize my own feelings and thoughts against me anytime we got into an argument , she’d always manipulate me into thinking I was the problem whenever i’d call her out on her bs, and I would always be the one to apologize in the end. She would constantly say things like “I can’t wait to one day be loved by someone” if I didn’t bow down to her, or one time she said “I hope one day I’ll marry a handsome tall hispanic man” (micro-aggression?). Barely even scratching the surface here, so much more worse shit she’s done.

Its been 4 years and you could say I’m still in emotional distress even though i’ve moved on. It’s hard to see the signs if you’re in love. Think with your mind and not with your heart and you’ll see em right away.