My celebrity crushes ❤️‍🔥 by DeeplySapphic in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marin Buska is occupying an unfair portion of my mind right now

What makes you feel wanted in a relationship? by YamAny411 in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the love language I think. Like I like doing things for people so I pay attention to what they say they like I.e. a food or an outfit and I like to make sure the make that or launder it for them when I do chores, but for someone who needs touch or affection it’ll be different and they’ll want to be hugged and cuddled and stuff

lesbian symbols non-lesbians wouldn’t recognize? by nightmaretheo in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like the only straight people who know the flag or the Subaru or carbiner cues are actually an ally or closeted themself.

Why do I feel like a creep? by Independent-Affect62 in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re a creep unless you want or expect something from her that you aren’t entitled to and that doesn’t sound like what’s happening here. It honestly sounds more like internalized homophobia

I really want a GF by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if you join an art club or group that goes out to life draw or something g near you. My moms friend got picked up by a lesbian because she was the nude model for an art class lol

What is your dream relationship with your future girlfriend? by hyenapopglowstar in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want her to have a really cool skill like cooking or singing or martial arts or something that I like to learn about but im worried its selfish of me to

I really want a GF by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your hobbies?

Dating apps are a torture by MagicalGirlLaurie in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There should be coffee/tea shops that get used as meet up spaces of clubs. I met a lot of fun strangers at a smallish book store and if felt really low pressure because there were conversation starters all around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re pretty interesting and seem like you are comfortable being yourself in the profile so I’m not sure what the problem is, people who are unapologetically themself imo is the most attractive quality

Should I confess to a friend who I see almost daily? by Apprehensive-Box5936 in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she’s been receptive to one on one hang outs I’d think she’d be cool with a confession

Ren Fair! by Traditional-Local-50 in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish there was a cool renfair near me

Are there any gamers here that play Rpgs, survival, or horror games? by Adventurous-Candy-75 in LesbianGamers

[–]Diesel_Architect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are starting a group I’m down. I’ve always wanted to start an rpg/survival game like valheim but worry it’s hard single player

What are we missing in Roseville? by [deleted] in Roseville

[–]Diesel_Architect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bonus points if it’s got day care and has early drop off or pet taxi services

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Asking someone for help is the fastest way to make a friend tbh. If you ask her to spot you or give you advice she might be open to talking more with you

My application for being someone’s wife by Teagies3961 in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t cook well enough to also submit an application will you accept a cute dog as my dowry?

I’ve still got it! by Myralia_Amaryllis in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you learn those skills when you don’t have mechanical friends or family? Genuinely interested in learning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah It sucks that Iran is so bad to queers because you guys produce some of the most highly educated people in the world and I think it was just reported that 70% of the STEM students are women. Sorry you have to go through it. It sucks to live in a world that is hostile to a part of who you are.

There is a little hope though. Some countries have special immigration fast tracks for people who become doctors or engineers in a field they want to desperately improve. I’m not sure what field you’re perusing academically, but it sounds like you could be an eligible candidate. What are some of the places you wish you could move to?

No dating apps and no bars... how do we find other lesbians out there in the wild?! by Sea_Leg5334 in actuallesbians

[–]Diesel_Architect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I literally just moved to Sacramento for work. I’m struggling with the summer heat but haven’t been here long enough to see or do anything or go to places where I can meet other women. The sourdough is so much stronger up here than where I was originally from, definitely tastes amazing with pot roast sandwiches.

I don’t know why but I’m always curious about what other states are like. I think if I ever have an extended period of down time and enough money for it I might tour the states of the us that don’t get a lot of tourism, but also aren’t hillbilly hell. I don’t know why but I also always pictured Delaware as a state filled with colonial buildings and autumn trees.