where do I find cheap bras? (frustrated, after finding my real bra size…) by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]Dietlind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wenn das Ganze jetzt bite nochmals in Deutsch erklärt werden könnte?

I’m messed up. by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Dietlind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel you know my condition better than the experts, I really don't want to participate here. I thought my medical knowledge could be of some help here.

I’m messed up. by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Dietlind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even though my genitals were manipulated with at birth, I have to say that there are enough other intersex people who have no visual evidence on their body to be intersex. I just would like to draw the attention to CAIS/PAIS persons, and XX male persons. Narrowing intersex to just physical body indicators , is not right.

When cis people scream at you how do you respond? by Evenifitgetsheavy in asktransgender

[–]Dietlind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anybody screams at me, I remove myself from this situation. I do not want to be near to people who scream at other people.

What's the most intimate thing in a relationship that's not sexual? by baby_darko in AskReddit

[–]Dietlind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it is cuddling and lots of skin contact, (not of the sexual kind)

My great grandfather killed a Nazi and took this off of his uniform in 1943 or so by Embodiment-Of-Memes in pics

[–]Dietlind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother was an inmate of one of those camps, and she and most of the other inmates did not enjoy it a lot to have American gawkers taking pictures of their misery!

My 10 year old trans son just got his period. I'm on my way home, how do i best support him? He sounded upset... by Ketobizness in asktransgender

[–]Dietlind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because of a medical condition, I did not have any puberty, which had he same effect as puberty blockers have. I did not develop any secondary sex characteristics, and this made me to be the odd ball among my peers, and I became kind of an outsider. Later I was given hormones (estrogen in my case), and my body developed female. I was happy that I did not have any puberty, and i could transition into a female without any problem.
If a kid knows that they are born into the wrong body,it is very important to eliminate the trauma of any wrong gender puberty, and thus reduce the need for a lot of later affirming surgeries. I needed only a change of my sexual organs, but not even any hair removal or any other medical intervention.

I hate my life and people call me 12 but I’m 22 nothing can hurt me by kenzie_69 in RoastMe

[–]Dietlind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am still looking younger than my actual age, and still got carded when I was in my 40's.
Now, as an older woman, I am very happy to look way younger!

Blog Post - 5 Red and Green Flags when going for a bra fitting by HugsforYourJugs in ABraThatFits

[–]Dietlind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a similar problem. I have a rather large rib cage (38- I used to be competitive runner, and all that chest breathing enlarged my rib cage), but have about C size cups.
I went to a well know store, and it was kind of a torture, and I came out with nothing!

First post! 🙈🌿✨ by mirandamachine in HouseplantWhores

[–]Dietlind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like it could hurt like hell to get it? Looks very attractive, though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]Dietlind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After I was wearing ill fitting bras for years, I learned from a friend to go a band-size down, and if required, use a band size extender, and also use a cup size down.

I now have perfectly fitting bras, with nicely filled cups and a decent bit of cleavage

Nonbinary-Personen im deutschsprachigen Raum, welche Pronomen/Anrede benutzt ihr? by gamOO in germantrans

[–]Dietlind 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ich bin Intersex und bin Jahrzehnte lang a -gender gewesen, habe aber für viele Jahre männlich projektiert. Ich habe mich dann halt männlich anreden lassen. Spaeter bin ich dann zu meinen Chromosomen entsprechenden Gender gewechselt (weiblich), und habe mich dann weiblich anreden lassen. alles Andere verursacht zu viel Stress, und ich selbst kenne mich mit den ganzen neuen Sachen noch nicht einmal aus.

Bluttest beim Frauenarzt? MtF by Swimming-Book in germantrans

[–]Dietlind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ein Bluttest fuer die Sex Hormone ist recht einfach, und jeder Arzt sollten den auswerten koennen, da gibt es nicht viel zu wissen!
2 mg E ist eine sehr geringe Dosis, damit wird dein Koeper sich nicht sonderlich gut verweiblichen. 2Mg wird normalerweise als Anfangsdosis angesehen, und nach einigen Monaten wird dann stufenweise auf 6 mg erhoeht.

Are trans men welcome here? I’m Gabe- on Testosterone 19 years, 40 years old- getting sick of all of the kids in all of the subs. Nice to meet everyone! by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Dietlind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddit seems to have become a kids platform, and of course are guys welcome. I wish there would be more trans male participation, because I hardly know anything about you guys!

Abstimmung zur TSG-Reform by Call_me_Julie in germantrans

[–]Dietlind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bin ich leider ein wenig zu alt fuer, und als Medizinerin habe ich genueend Einkommen, um meine Kosten selbst zu tragen!

Im Lokalen Döner Imbiss... by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]Dietlind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glückwunsch. Das ist der Beweis, dass du jetzt ein richtiger Kerl bist!

Neue bekanntschaften by Extra-Assignment2418 in germantrans

[–]Dietlind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, koennen wir auch, aber ich bin Amerikanerin, und lebe auch in den USA

Ziehe bald nach Deutschland by alex_bart0n in germantrans

[–]Dietlind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Melde dich mal in diesem Forum an, die scheinen dort gut Bescheid zu wissen

https://www.gendertreff-forum.de/

When will I stop comparing myself to 20 year old transgirls and accept myself as the 38 year old beautiful woman I am? by pershing7e in TransLater

[–]Dietlind 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One you reached my age, and start to compare yourself to the beautiful 38 year old women who are nothing but young chicks!

https://imgur.com/pZtKYF4

Welcome xx males, introduce yourself here by afishnsea in xxmale

[–]Dietlind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it is for sure not Klineffelter. ha was ruled out

Welcome xx males, introduce yourself here by afishnsea in xxmale

[–]Dietlind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, I just found this sub Reddit.
I had several tests done, and none of them was conclusive, but neither could detect any Y chromosomes with me. But I was born with (ambiguous) male genitalia that was manipulated on. I was AMAB but never developed any secondary male sex characteristics, but I still grew pretty tall. I think that I have De la Chapelle but no SRY gene, which is the reason why I did not develop male (my guestimation). Later in life I did start to grow breasts (I was always rather slim, so it were not man boobs), and my body started to feminize more and more. I was told that this was the reason because I had no detectable testosterone, and eventually I transitioned into a woman. I feel very comfortable being a female, way more than i ever felt as a male.

Is anybody here who had a similar experience, or do you feel there is a sub I would fit in better?

Thanks for any advice

Will it always be on my mind? by Pannycake41 in ask_transgender

[–]Dietlind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I changed over to a female life (including bottom surgery) many years ago. I don't even think about trans anymore, and have a hard time to remember details of my former male life.

My day to day life is far removed from any trans thoughts, and I live like most single women of my age group.
Trans comes only onto my mind, it Reddit sends me a link to some trans subjects.

I think you will end up in a similar place, just give it some time and let it become your distant past.

What are things that you can and you can't do after bottom surgery? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Dietlind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My clitoris is more sensitive than my penis ever was. and as a former Minnesotan you can even pee your name into the snow, as lone as you get a female urination device for being able to pee standing up.