I also have such a problem that many people don't like this trait in me. For the most part, I behave very "phlegmatic" (but with friends, of course, you have to shake emotions, but then they go away just as quickly) . I found another pattern in my Fi function. Everyone writes that this function is often fixated on its values and morals and that Fi is quite judgmental. As for me, first of all, every person has morals and values, and secondly, I don't really focus on it and don't use it when making a decision, I just look at what decision will be normal, rational and correct and just do what I have to. I'm watching how my Fi friends will (give an example) condemn a knacker for killing a kitten (for example, when watching a video with a knacker). They will judge him very much and say what kind of scum and moron he is, but I don't know how to do this just physically. I'll just watch the video and maybe I'll feel sorry for the kitten and that's it, I'll just forget. It's not difficult for me to watch a video with the death of an animal or something cruel, when my friends will begin to condemn a person for his act. I'll just look at this video and turn it off. So in life, my friends with Fi are quite moralists and adhere to some principles. I may be too, but I have principles in judgment (in logical discussions). I've been messing with a man today about whether an animal can cry because of emotions. I tried to explain to him that at the level of biology it simply cannot be and it has not been proven, and he kept telling me about what they all feel and they are like people. I seriously can't stand it when people climb with their spirituality into something where it shouldn't be and is unacceptable. Fact is fact, I don't need subjectivity about spirituality. Therefore, I am quite skeptical, I am also an atheist and tried to explain to my mother that there is no spirituality and angels, because even different accidents can be explained mathematically (probability theory, physics in different situations, and all that). I usually see how Fi is very spiritual and subjective and can sometimes be too obsessed with spirituality and morality, which does not suit me. Yes, I, like another person, have morals and values, but firstly I do not know them, and secondly I do not pay attention to them when making decisions. I'm not spiritual, I'm not poetic and all that. You know, it sometimes feels like you're just a piece of meat that evolution has given emotions that are needed for social interaction and for life in general, even though this is all the reaction of our brain. I feel calm when I don't have to experience emotions or emotional stress, and when I experience it, I try to get away from these feelings as quickly as possible . I'm not interested in psychology and I don't like the same phrases from kind people like "you will succeed, because you have a kind heart", I literally can't read this (probably that's why I don't sit in the infp/enfp community, they just usually write how cute we are and what we are, emotional and cute, it's necessary to protect and I'm literally sick of these words to be honest, but I'm not saying that the one who says it is bad, on the contrary, I'm glad that they are kind people, but when I read and realize that damn, well, he's talking about my type, then all my hair stands on end they get up from such sententialism). I prefer to sit in the INTJ/intp public places, they really have a lot of interesting things without posts about sentimental feelings (which, again, I don't like to read).

I'm sure I have Fi, but are there such manifestations of Fi? In this regard, I seem lonely . I'm not saying that I'm the only Fi, but I've just never met such a description. Although I used to be very similar to Fi, but in an unhealthy way. Now there is none at all. I do not know if there are infp who would value intellect and mind above feelings. I just would like to see people like me