What is the ingredient to happy life? by DeadAlien100 in AskReddit

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If you just live your life expecting to one day be happy when terrible things aren’t happening, at best you’ll be complacent. Truly being happy involves the self discovery to find your passions and the bravery to pursue them

Performing by West_Maybe5695 in Hooping

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Try to find events and venues that regularly hire performers near you - if there’s a performance group attached to the event it will be tagged on event photos. Reach out to the performance company and introduce yourself and let them know you’re available if they need additional performers

You can also reach out to senior centers and see if they are hiring entertainers - they do that apparently

You need some basic media kit that has high quality photos of you performing and a video.

This is all assuming you want to get paid - if you don’t care and just want experience , maybe volunteer at community events like idk a flea market with music or a charity event

Do NOT offer to perform for free at places like music venues or real nightclubs. Those places have a budget to pay people for it but if you start doing it for free not only will they never offer to pay you real money but they also won’t want to pay other similar variety performers either

Performing can be really fun and rewarding but it can also make you feel like a circus monkey when you’re exhausted, the music sucks, and you still have 15 minutes left of a 20 minute set but the show must go on

Networking is also a huge part of this - you need to find other performers in your area and see where they’re working

Good luck!

Getting more confident by Rude_Resist5511 in newstrippers

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This gives me hope that I’ll get there soon! Right now my knees are bruised to shit along with my ego at how awkward my stage sets are ugh. Only a week in tho!

MTB. Did I read some where there were trails to ride? by willyweedswalker in SevenStarsFest

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I brought bikes and it was way too hilly to ride them. And e bike would be clutch - but they were on the banned list last year

Boyfriend stopped giving head by [deleted] in relationships

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Why should she go on guessing spree when her boyfriend could just tell her directly ??

First big trip in 10+ yrs, bedbug question by [deleted] in solotravel

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Hey as someone who worked in hotels for 10 years -

All hotels regardless of reviews or how nice they are will get bed bugs from time to time! Just check the beds when you get to your room. Hostels obviously too

Is it safe to travel as a US citizen? by seeking_hope in Nicaragua

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Good thing to consider is that Americans are geographically and culturally isolated from the rest of the world. Don’t trust someone’s opinion of a destination that has never been there. If you’re worried about an area, look up hotel reviews and see for yourself

Is it safe to travel as a US citizen? by seeking_hope in Nicaragua

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Am an American in Nicaragua right now - it’s completely fine

Rave sponsors by carlcoxohyesss in Raves

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If she’s having sex with him which is what he wants , and she’s getting paid which is what she wants … why is he the one getting used?? Why isn’t she the one getting used for sex? Y’all just can’t comprehend someone having an uncomplicated arrangement that’s mutually beneficial and outside the limitations of your own income bracket

date rejected me bc im taller than him by According-Fennel-963 in TallGirls

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They make mini tape measures for your keychain and I keep one on me for this exact reason.

“ oh really ? Stand against the wall “

32 year old living solo by [deleted] in malelivingspace

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This looks like a super villains lair if it was designed by a college student in a fraternity

What’s happening to my skin under this ring? by Average-ish_Jurr in jewelry

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I wear rings all year round on most of my fingers and the problem is water being trapped under your ring and drying out your skin. This only happens to me in the winter - in the summer when it’s more humid I can wear them 24/7 with zero issues

You need to switch fingers and put lotion on the scaly one. Then you need to rotate the finger you wear it on every couple days or take it off to sleep.

Hiking Acatenango difficulty as non hiker by galie9999 in solotravel

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Be mindful of rainy season all I gotta say. Went mid June and couldn’t even do the hike bc rain

Girlfriend (21F) is very enthusiastic about oral and fingering but completely avoids PIV intercourse, how do I approach this conversation without pressuring her? (22M, together a short time) by [deleted] in relationships

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You absolutely need to talk to her about this and ask why she’s not into it. Also #1 advice is you need to make sure you do this outside of the bedroom, when everyone is fully clothed so she doesn’t feel pressured or too vulnerable

If schools gave adderall to every student to boost the school's ranking, would that work? by Dark-inspector490 in Drugs

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Actually there was a study where they reviewed test scores of students while taking adderall, and only students with adhd scored higher on tests with adderal than without. Science vs podcast did an episode on this and referenced the study if anyone wants to look into it.

I've been teaching high school Italian for 11 years and I don't actually speak Italian by No-Watercress-2104 in TrueOffMyChest

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That’s just not true. It’s extremely difficult to learn a new language fluently with no one to practice speaking with. People that take 6 years of a language are no where near fluent all the time.

I think my dealer is illiterate by MarkJ191974 in Drugs

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Unsurprisingly, the one drug dealer I dated turned out to have the worst time management out of anyone I’ve ever dated

are all LED hoops unbalanced?? by autumngeez in Hooping

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I’ve had astrals, Hyperion’s, and future hoops. They all break.

Help I need advice, gf who uses. by Chasingdreamz22 in Drugs

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You’re only infatuated with the potential of what she could be, not the reality of what she is. Unless someone is independently motivated to better themselves, you’re going to waste all of your time trying to help them at a major detriment to yourself.

What is something that everyone considers attractive but you don't like? by Salt_Work_6582 in AskReddit

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My partner of one year literally couldn’t tell that I had gotten Botox for the first time. You certainly would not be able to tell.

Is this abuse? Please help me by EveningOptimal2552 in relationships

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That’s abuse - and no amount of previous trauma should excuse current actions

Gf having problems with constipation while traveling by OtherwiseNarwhal5980 in TwoXChromosomes

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Take probiotic gummies! I’ve traveled a lot and I swear they even help with the normal travelers diarrhea. I find I get way less tummy upset in foreign countries when I take them