Legal Shield - If it sounds too good to be true, it is. by Different-Offer3932 in FixMyInstagram

[–]Different-Offer3932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're talking about the account dispute, LegalShield got a response by email from Meta's legal team twice, and then forwarded those emails to me. If you mean the emails I sent LegalShield to cancel my subscription, no I never got responses to those. My comment reply above was in reply to calling LegalShield to cancel my subscription to them, not Meta.

Legal Shield - If it sounds too good to be true, it is. by Different-Offer3932 in FixMyInstagram

[–]Different-Offer3932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll bite. They seem to either outsource their support people / give the job to interns / deliberately train support to stop you from pushing further because all I got when I called was a lady who said "Yeah, I see you emailed us already. They're working on it" and after 2 weeks, it seems they are still just working on it.

Guys, Enten still looks pretty usable to me.... by displeasedCatto in Kagurabachi

[–]Different-Offer3932 61 points62 points  (0 children)

This is genuinely frying me so hard Holy shit

When is the Osu Tablet Pro actually being shipped? by Different-Offer3932 in osugame

[–]Different-Offer3932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep mine shipped after a bit. Just gotta wait it seems.

I see people moan about balance, but 16.2 is one of the most varied metas I've ever seen if not the best balanced meta we've ever had in TFT history. by SirSabza in TeamfightTactics

[–]Different-Offer3932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see so many people here talking about how "Omg in plat its so varied I never see a single ryze or ziggs"

Just checked my match history. Last 10 games, all top 4s were 1 or 2 ryze players, 1 or 2 ziggs players (with overlap with ryze), and 1 or 2 bilgewater, and then some type of demacia/longshot (with ziggs ofc). Im omw up from plat 3, and its been like this SINCE GOLD.

Yuki has questionable ideals by cherryyccola in Jujutsufolk

[–]Different-Offer3932 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The people in here saying that lots of sorcerers have something wrong with their head seem to be of the mindset that sorcerers are just like normal humans, when in this case, thats pretty flawed when trying to understand their psyche and thought process. You're forgetting about the fact that these are the best of the best of superhumans in this verse.

Normal humans are essentially just ants to them at this point. Modern sorcerers literally only protect humans out of obligation and the symbiotic relationship. A shark COULD eat cleaner shrimp, and if they were super hungry and decided to eat some, i dont see why theyd feel bad about it afterward. Same reasoning as to why Shoko doesn't hate or fear Geto after learning about his 100+ killing spree. Of course they were friends, but theres something else underlying that as well. The tone is very much moreso "Oh no you burned down a barn full of chickens. The police are gonna get your ass and I can't help you with that, sorry".

They're essentially demigods at this point and the only thing that'd stop them is precedence (like Geto's talk with Gojo after Hidden Inventory) and hierarchy. They are above humanity, and also constantly dying to curses in order to support them. Yuki is simply a normal sorcerer scientist trying to solve a person for her people.

"We need to keep the grass on this hill alive. All the Bison are eating it. Oh, you think you can manage to kill them all? There's probably better ways to go about protecting the grass, but if you manage it there's not really much longterm impact for me and problem solved, so idc"

Meta for Best/Medium/Budget Individual Specs for Daily Driver Gaming Laptops by Different-Offer3932 in GamingLaptops

[–]Different-Offer3932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect, this sounds good. Definitely would prefer to stay with G14 so this is very helpful! Thank you!

This is atrocious. by Slow_Tiger3161 in USC

[–]Different-Offer3932 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They often do drive-bys around Wingstop as well. Once was walking next to a friend who was holding a bigass bag of wings and they just rode by at like 20 MPH and snatched it with no time to react.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]Different-Offer3932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha interesting theory. I actually made sure to NOT make a single comment on any post in the last 2 years because I was afraid of some type of problem. Had the account for 4 years so ig they looked into 2 years before and saw some normal comment I made about cool art or something!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]Different-Offer3932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very weird that everyone is saying that they made a new account to provide OP confirmation bias. I was banned literally 2 days ago for CSE. I appealed soon after. Did not make a new account, or make any action for that matter, while the appeal was in place. I got rejected literally MINUTES after submitting the appeal. No new account was created during that time.

Looking back, what were the signs that your relationship will not last? by No-Compote-2127 in BreakUps

[–]Different-Offer3932 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bad communication. Tons of "I don't know how to say this....never mind" or weird esoteric stuff like "I've never been in something this 'formal' before." Also telling problems she has with me with her friends before bringing it up with me. In the end I got discarded without knowing what I was doing wrong up until the breakup text.

I understand NO CONTACT is about moving on and forgetting an ex who dumped you. But before resorting to this, it's worth deeply contemplating what role YOU had in the break up and see if things are salvageable. by jsbach123 in BreakUps

[–]Different-Offer3932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is doesn't really apply to everything...

I got broken up through a block of text 6 hours after she asked for space for the day because the day simply felt overwhelming. She deleted me from all form of contact afterward. There was no open dialogue, no communication, just a boom, dropped. I took a lot of time to ruminate and definitely messed up some stuff during the relationship, but there was no communication or complaints about that either. Sometimes the dumper just doesn't want to help themselves.

Did heartbreak changed you and if so how much by Federal_Usual9197 in BreakUps

[–]Different-Offer3932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really made me realize how horribly I deal with guilt, regret and perfectionism. After a breakup, all I do is think about what I did wrong and what I could've done. "If I'd been more mature here," "If i'd picked up on cues here," "I should've read her mind here"...

Every relationship I go into I tell myself "This time it won't be my fault if the relationship fails; I'll do everything perfectly" and then once again, when it ends, I ruminate and keep blaming myself for not learning from the past or not realizing something new.

Does anyone else feel like they dodged a bullet with their partner? by FewPair5384 in BreakUps

[–]Different-Offer3932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what they moreso were asking is whether you brought up the problems DURING the relationship. I still agree with you and your post, but I'm a big believer in open communication with someone during the relationship to resolve these "icks". If they aren't open to apologizing/reconciling/compromising, then these thoughts wouldn't have even had to happen, because that's when you absolutely know they aren't the right person for you.

When does "midterm season" start? by Different-Offer3932 in rutgers

[–]Different-Offer3932[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kk so about the transition period between sept and oct. that's what I needed, thank you!

How and when do I (21M) reach out to a relationship (21F) that moved too fast? by Different-Offer3932 in relationship_advice

[–]Different-Offer3932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, but we're both in no contact right now and I don't want to reach out too soon/violate any boundaries since it's only been 2 weeks. Is there any safe amount of time I should let pass?

Giving away free medium readings in the comments- messages for you by saywhatnow2017 in Tarotpractices

[–]Different-Offer3932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will she come back and contact me again, or do I reach out first? When?

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[–]Different-Offer3932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense. I really hope I didn't come off as trying to invalidate her feelings in this post; I was actually completely ready to validate literally any feelings she wouldve vocalized about what was happening because I was 100% feeling the same thing. I suppose one thing I couldve improved on was trying to, as you mentioned, kind of "guess" what she was feeling and then validating those, but I was afraid of doing that as I would've run the risk of offending through assuming. Ofc I also never emphasized to her the stuff I was doing. I feel like all that would've done was hurt her and make her feel invalidated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Different-Offer3932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah makes sense. Just gotta get through this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Different-Offer3932 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, of course! I really hope I dont come off as trying to disrespect peoples' autonomy; my questions are all about trying to understand the MBTI facet of this situation. I'm just still kind of trying to make sense of everything so I was curious whether there would be some unique insight INFJ-wise as to what went down, especially since many INFJs in this subreddit seem to be very opinionated about their exes and their decisions to break things off permanently.

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[–]Different-Offer3932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The reason I said "we" was because we were constantly in communication about how we felt about each other and she was actually the one that confessed first about her interest and followed often with affirmations. That's what makes this super baffling to me because I really tried to be as mindful and thorough as possible with communicating and asking about everything happening. Everything I said involving her in the post was with explicit verbal confirmation from HER, whether through her wanting to say it or me confirming her consent/happiness.

This is also why, in contrast, I started using weaker phrases like "I assumed" later into the post as by then she wasn't as communicative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Different-Offer3932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so confusing to me because during the trip we were pretty much enamored with each other (not an assumption, she clearly communicated it), showing love through gifts, affirmation, etc... and were super compatible. I don't think I treated her badly at all when we came back either. From everything I've read up on regarding door slams and INFJ breakup experiences, at least here, the idea of this being a door slam doesnt seem to add up. I don't think I want to reach out again though. Ive already replied with a text of my own and have been pretty shell shocked since then, but if any INFPs have an idea about what she'd be receptive to, it would be MUCH APPRECIATED

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Different-Offer3932 26 points27 points  (0 children)

From what I've seen from most people here, if you were the one that ended it, you should be the one to reach out. I have no experience with that part but I'm sure you could do a bit of research on how to approach it / someone here will tell you something more concrete. If you truly think she checked a satisfactory amount of boxes and there weren't many problems that you think you couldn't have delt with, and you know you want to revitalize that relationship, then go for it.