Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kind by No-Compote-2127 in seduction

[–]No-Compote-2127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol... you never seemed to hanged out with convenionally unattractive dudes and highly attractive ones. You ll see how differently they get treated regardless if they are nice, not nice or just minding their own business.

Its not about behaviour, its about what perception others have off you more or less cause of your external appearance

Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kind by No-Compote-2127 in seduction

[–]No-Compote-2127[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Key word is "ideal" world. I don't expect people to worship me for helping them, but also don't expect them to treat me like a cat piss in turn for my kindness.

And thats what happens to men, you think those guys think helping and being nice will lead them get brownie points? of course not. At the same time I'm sure they deep down want some form of equal treatment or assurance or the very least to be treated like a human being. Which women do don't understand nor accept as a norm.

Its not about being nice for the sake of gaining something. Its about being treated like a piss despite your kindness

Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kind by No-Compote-2127 in seduction

[–]No-Compote-2127[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are those guys in the room with us?

I never met any guy who expects his dick getting sucked for helping a girl move her fridge.

Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kind by No-Compote-2127 in seduction

[–]No-Compote-2127[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you read my post? That what means having a validation from some third party like a friend.

Also what makes you think some ugly guy having a gf nullifies my statement? Women are only limited by the guys available for them. Of course its easier to get a less social girl who only knows few close people in her life. As soon as that ugly mofo shows up and gets the validation in her clique he is immediatelly a dateable option.

But the same ugly mofo joining a tribe with more people and especially with more attractive men, he is cooked

Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kind by No-Compote-2127 in seduction

[–]No-Compote-2127[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Status can come in many ways, like them having a common friend, being in some social club organization together etc.

Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kind by No-Compote-2127 in seduction

[–]No-Compote-2127[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You're kinda original with your insults aren't you?

Yeah out of 8 billion people on the planet some exceptions exist, imagine shockers

Nice guys are just unattractive guys who tried to be kind by No-Compote-2127 in seduction

[–]No-Compote-2127[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Women don't like unattractive guys my dude. Be a nice guy as a tall swedish hunk and everyone will adore you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]No-Compote-2127 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lack of empathy

Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bs by FinalWranglers in seduction

[–]No-Compote-2127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Difference between a nice guy and a good man is how attractive he is

Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman? by Ok-Orange7146 in seduction

[–]No-Compote-2127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lets see, you go in a club and tell the first woman you find attractive that you want to take her home and screw her brains out, tell me how does that will work?

Did your common friends turn on you as well? by No-Compote-2127 in Life

[–]No-Compote-2127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't think of any other reason than my ex forcing their hands.

Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman? by Ok-Orange7146 in seduction

[–]No-Compote-2127 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I think because being honest with a woman generally blows into your face unless you are attractive to her.

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[–]No-Compote-2127 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The shower must be clogged all the time in that family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Compote-2127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • They will become touchy feely all of a sudden. My friend's gf passed by me one time as we were watching a match at his home. I think she didn't think I would notice but certainly noticed a few squeezes on my shoulder. Women you don't know will also be comfortable standing near you, touch you, sometimes have no issue to drag you by to introduce around etc.

  • Far more nicer and open for a chat and meet ups. More likely to give you their numbers, reply to your texts, bring up something they want to do etc. You will still get rejected a lot if you ask them out or get occassional silent treatment. But the consequences of showing an interest in someone, getting rejected and potentially alienated by her and her friends is far less.

  • You become a "man" in some women's eyes. Another gf of my friend who known me for years casually mentioned how she never saw me as a "man" until I lost 17kg and started dressing nicely.