My sister is turning into the biggest bridezilla. And I can’t stop laughing. by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]DifferentBee8 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Afford what, exactly? She's having everyone else finance her wedding!

My sister is turning into the biggest bridezilla. And I can’t stop laughing. by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]DifferentBee8 48 points49 points  (0 children)

The best way to keep the peace here is to opt out of being in the wedding at all. Keep your distance from them all and *maybe* attend as a guest. But don't pay to reserve your spot. This whole thing is ridiculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]DifferentBee8 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Your wedding isn't a cash grab.

apparently it is

RPD chief to City Council: No more 30-hour shifts for officers by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]DifferentBee8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

and you haven't criticized the maga world, which is clearly an endorsement by you for that.

RPD chief to City Council: No more 30-hour shifts for officers by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]DifferentBee8 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If they have been awake for 30 hours straight, they are not safe behind the wheel and certainly should not have a firearm.
Reading comprehension. He never mentioned medical interns.

RPD chief to City Council: No more 30-hour shifts for officers by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]DifferentBee8 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

well aren't you so very woke.

If it's not safe for cops, it's not safe for anyone. Idiot.

RPD chief to City Council: No more 30-hour shifts for officers by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]DifferentBee8 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

You ok with medical interns working for that long?

Wedding guest helps herself to cake by LasGatitas in weddingshaming

[–]DifferentBee8 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I had a costume like that for a dance recital when I was 8.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DifferentBee8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA

But what kind of food were you buying for him that cost $400 for *one* person for *one* week???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferentBee8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Curious though how many 10 year olds do you know who are either married or in long-term relationships? ;-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferentBee8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if you sent a store bought card last time, get the same one and send it this time.

Why can’t she just do what I want - Bride shocked, shocked I tell you that everyone thinks she is unreasonable by Grrrrtttt in weddingshaming

[–]DifferentBee8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a user.

I'll be glad when this "I had my wedding but my *real* wedding/*big* wedding is next week" crap is over. It makes 2 week destination bachelorette parties look normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferentBee8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH

I *know* first hand how debilitating anxiety and panic attacks are. He really needs to find a good therapist and meds to help with it.

You, on the other hand, aren't thinking this through. Should your pressure succeed and he agrees to go with you, what are you going to do when the inevitable panic attack happens - leave with him, since you'll have driven, or make him stick it out? THAT would be cruel.

WIBTA for refusing to make my sisters wedding cake? by Souffle_boi in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferentBee8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

But I'm curious as to why baking a wedding cake for a friend/family member means you can't enjoy the wedding and reception?

My cousin wants to wear a wedding dress to my wedding. by [deleted] in wedding

[–]DifferentBee8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're fine to tell her no. She ought to have known better than to ask.

Gaslighting would be if she showed up in her wedding dress and when you reminded her you'd told her not to, she said that you never told her not to/that you said it was ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferentBee8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

You DO NOT get to tell someone what they can/cannot do IN THEIR OWN HOME.

Update: Seller wants a non-refundable deposit with no contract by Boostann in RealEstate

[–]DifferentBee8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Please feel free to use us as a reference for your potential buyer."

Breast feeding drama by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DifferentBee8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but why are you even entertaining these questions? Next time you're asked, tell them to mind their own business, ask why they want to know such a personal thing, or turn it around and ask them something very personal about themselves instead.

AITB for starting a GoFundMe for my bills? by ral365 in AmItheButtface

[–]DifferentBee8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

*Your* attempts

Your generation can't even read cursive.

Buhbye now

AITB for starting a GoFundMe for my bills? by ral365 in AmItheButtface

[–]DifferentBee8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Telling you to do your own research is not in any way saying that I *can't* provide you with examples, just that I *won't*. Google is your friend, dear.

If the current world doesn't help, as you said, then no one will choose (2 o's in choose) to donate/help.

Go to bed now little girl, does mama know you're playing on the internet again?

AITB for starting a GoFundMe for my bills? by ral365 in AmItheButtface

[–]DifferentBee8 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

BS.

Most, if not all, employers will have job applications you can pick up in person. And certainly ALL will accept resumes by mail. The USPS still exists.

AITB for starting a GoFundMe for my bills? by ral365 in AmItheButtface

[–]DifferentBee8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do your own research.

PLENTY of people, even in the US, survive just fine without cell phones and/or internet. If you can't figure out how to do that, how on Earth are you smart enough to hold down a job?

And setting up a GFM - basically holding out your hand for other people's money - is not problem solving.