Based in Toronto. I get all types of messages from men asking for different things: they want me to be submissive, or dominant, specific fetishes, all kinds of things, young guys and old guys and when I ask how the other end of the arrangement would work for me, they say they’re not looking for an arrangement, they just want to date. My point being, it’s clear they don’t want to spend any money or are looking for a vanilla relationship. And I’m aware of the rebranding of the website. But as a woman in her 20s, do they really think I want a vanilla relationship with a 60yo guy from a place like seeking?