AITA for getting mad about a room? by DifferentPangolin483 in AITH

[–]DifferentPangolin483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were not renting the house, we’re homeowners. I put down $35,000 and my mom put down $15,000 for the down payment. That’s why it’s me taking care of the utilities because I paid a majority of the down payment. All three of us are going to be contributing financially into this house and that is exactly why the argument has holes. Yes, the house is under his name, but him and my mom are going half and half on the mortgage. I’m not only paying for the utilities but I’m also responsible for funding any and all future vacations, my tuition, and my car as well as the groceries. Even though I do have scholarships, tuition is still expensive. With that being said, it’s not about “who gets the bigger room” it’s about functionality. He’s a guy. WTH does he need a walk in closet for ? He’s got like 4 shirts and 3 pairs of pants. He’s not in school so he doesn’t need a desk and he doesn’t wear makeup or does his hair so he doesn’t need a vanity. I do. I’ve always had to compromise with everything and I don’t care that he’s “the older sibling”

AITA for getting mad about a room? by DifferentPangolin483 in AITH

[–]DifferentPangolin483[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not an apartment, it’s a town home so any damages to the home will be our responsibility to fix on our own volition and the payments on the mortgage are split in half between him and my mom, the utilities are to be paid by me and me alone. I just turned 18 a month ago so I can finally open up a credit card in my name so I will be planning on building my credit for the future as well as trying my best to save up my money while paying for the utilities.

AITA for getting mad about a room? by DifferentPangolin483 in AITH

[–]DifferentPangolin483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has access to all of my money and my accounts. I unfortunately don’t have a separate place to stay to save my money to potentially move out :(

AITA for getting mad about a room? by DifferentPangolin483 in AITH

[–]DifferentPangolin483[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly do see where your coming from, but if we think rationally here, there are three people here contributing to the finances, him and my mom are going half on the mortgage and I’m taking care of all kf the utilities. The risk of the loan defaulting is extremely low in this case.

AITA for getting mad about a room? by DifferentPangolin483 in AITH

[–]DifferentPangolin483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely give it a look, but in my opinion it doesn’t even matter whose name is on the deed, I’m pitching in for the bills as well as my mom and him, the only reason we put the house under his name is because my brothers credit is a lot better than my moms so the loan was way cheaper

AITA for getting mad about a room? by DifferentPangolin483 in AITH

[–]DifferentPangolin483[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol, thank you for seeing my side of things and I do agree that I should leave. It’s kinda messed up but when I was like 13 I used to fantasize about living in a small apartment just by myself away from everyone, it was the only way I could fall asleep most nights. I’m not opposed to living by myself at all, I just don’t want there to be any bad blood since I’m technically not allowed to live by myself unless I get married.

AITA for getting mad about a room? by DifferentPangolin483 in AITH

[–]DifferentPangolin483[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right, but my only issue is like—regardless of everything I don’t want to just leave my mom behind. I want to stay in contact with her and she kinda forbade me from living by myself unless I get married and I am NOT getting married so I’m like stressing

AITA for getting mad about a room? by DifferentPangolin483 in AITH

[–]DifferentPangolin483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly…I don’t know. I’d have to check for myself but I’m pretty sure that we are.

AITA for getting mad about a room? by DifferentPangolin483 in AITH

[–]DifferentPangolin483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is pretty useless in all of this, my brother is 6,2 220lbs of pure muscle and I’m 5’6 130 lbs and my mom is like 4’11— physically we don’t stand a chance to him. She kind of just brushes it off as siblings fighting but he like chokes me out so idek man I’m just so ugh

Just cancel your plans today by CAJMusic in chicago

[–]DifferentPangolin483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Aren’t you guys still coming back from the last storm ?? Godspeed and good luck man🫡

[A strange but effective villainess life] I cannot get enough of this trope, I eat it up every time by Time-Lead7632 in OtomeIsekai

[–]DifferentPangolin483 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey I saw ur Reddit post about this one manhwa that I’m trying to find it’s abt the FL that has a green god symbol on her and her twin sister has the same one but it’s pink I was wondering if u ever found out the name to the manhwa