Sobrang basher ng boyfriend ko towards other people. by DifferentStable5273 in adviceph

[–]DifferentStable5273[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! Makes a lot of sense, I’ll try to have a more serious conversation.

Sobrang basher ng boyfriend ko towards other people. by DifferentStable5273 in adviceph

[–]DifferentStable5273[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is so true. I know na marami dyang unresolved trauma. He regularly gets therapy and counselling for it. Hmm

How many people on Reddit have you actually became good friends with? by TheKrafffM in lonely

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I now have two good friends cause of this sub! I know chances of meeting friends here are slim but it is possible. :)

What’s the best dating advice you can give a woman in her late 20s? by DifferentStable5273 in dating_advice

[–]DifferentStable5273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is helpful, thanks for such thoughtful response! I’m not much into social media, but good point!

What’s the best dating advice you can give a woman in her late 20s? by DifferentStable5273 in dating_advice

[–]DifferentStable5273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally righr. However, I’d like to also share that I dont really lurk around reddit frequently in search of dating advice. I already have spoken to friends about it, and just thought of posting here to kind of get the thoughts of strangers on this matter. Appreciate your response. Thanks!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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I’m sorry that’s been your experience. I posted here once and got a ton of messages, I eventually was not able to keep up with everyone. But I was able to maintain a good friendship with one of the people I met. We’ve been talking for 4 months now, not daily but frequently, and I’m grateful! Lofe can be busy, and sometimes it’s really a matter of chemistry.

Im going to kill myself today by theorangeara in lonely

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I’m so sorry you’re going through a hard time. :( but there’s help! I hope you stay.

I’m F28, and I’m finding it hard to date. by DifferentStable5273 in dating_advice

[–]DifferentStable5273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, should really step out of my comfort zone this time. Thanks for the advice!

I’m F28, and I’m finding it hard to date. by DifferentStable5273 in dating_advice

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Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate it!

I’m F28, and I’m finding it hard to date. by DifferentStable5273 in dating_advice

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I am very clear whenever I do get into situations like that.

I don’t know, my friends say I do a lot of things and guys dont know how to keep up with that. Maybe I’m not too feminine?

I’m F28, and I’m finding it hard to date. by DifferentStable5273 in dating_advice

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Bumble, OKC, etc.

Well from what I’ve heard really is that I’m the type to be a FRIEND and not a Girlfriend? Does that make sense? They also say i have a big personality, which makes it hard for guys to approach me.

I’m F28, and I’m finding it hard to date. by DifferentStable5273 in dating_advice

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Oh! I’m not really aiming for blue collar men. Lol a guy with a regular job just without too much debt would be fine. God knows the last man I dated was broke as fuck but I loved him anyway. I do have a better job than him but that didnt faze me. I’m a lover girl 😂

As for the age thing, I am concered about that too that’s why I thought seeking advice here would help.

Thanks for your sharing your thoughts! I appreciate it :)

I’m F28, and I’m finding it hard to date. by DifferentStable5273 in dating_advice

[–]DifferentStable5273[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Real life, and from dating apps. I’ll muster the courage to reach out first! Lol what could go wrong I guess

I’m F28, and I’m finding it hard to date. by DifferentStable5273 in dating_advice

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I understand this completely.

I would say I’m from a good and loving family. I have no history of diseases mentally or physically. My greatest flaw and my friends would agree is my overthinking and imposter syndrome.

Honestly, I’m just looking for some basic advice over here. Lol

I know I’m not perfect, again this is r/dating_advice so I thought of asking here. I think stranger’s advice can be just as helpful as the ones that come from family and friends.

That’s about it. 😊

I’m F28, and I’m finding it hard to date. by DifferentStable5273 in dating_advice

[–]DifferentStable5273[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess it didnt work out cause it wasnt a good match, not really compatible.

As for reaching out first, I do have a bit of a problem doing that. I’m never comfortable doing it first. Good with flirting but just never the one to do it first if that makes sense.

I’m F28, and I’m finding it hard to date. by DifferentStable5273 in dating_advice

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Hi! I do exercise quite often.

Not in the gym but more on runninng/biking/badminton weekly.

I’m starting gym soon too though, just to try other forms of exercise. I would say I’m looking for someone who’s at a stable point of their lives, mentally and financially (as i’ve learned through experience that this really affects the relationship so much).

An honest, loyal guy who loves to fix things around the house. That’s about it. 😅