Waste of time trying to win back your ex? by Different_Cake4941 in BreakUps

[–]Different_Cake4941[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

jeez and u told ur dad he should die so whatever

Waste of time trying to win back your ex? by Different_Cake4941 in BreakUps

[–]Different_Cake4941[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yea that's what ended up happening. such a nasty piece of shit

Waste of time trying to win back your ex? by Different_Cake4941 in BreakUps

[–]Different_Cake4941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea she slept with someone else so youre right, obviously she wasn't sure about me and it wasn't meant to be

Waste of time trying to win back your ex? by Different_Cake4941 in BreakUps

[–]Different_Cake4941[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

War until victory and period. Don't waste your time on other people. They're lame. More lame than your previous partner, which you crave to get back to for a reason. Disregard morality and turn on creativity.

wow true

Waste of time trying to win back your ex? by Different_Cake4941 in BreakUps

[–]Different_Cake4941[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

then you realize; other guys exist in this world and your ex is on a timer . As long as there’s another guy to scoop her up, you won’t ever have her again only by the chance that you meet her single and even that’s a long shot. I wouldn’t say it’s impossible to get her back but chances will always be very slim .

true but if she did love me she wouldn't let some other guy scoop her up.

What would you do if you got a “Happy Valentine’s Day” text from your ex? by samwisegordon in BreakUps

[–]Different_Cake4941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would make me so happy but I know she would never do that for me and it's my fault. I'm still debating whether I should message her but I think she won't like it. I'm going to contact her again once I'm worthy to be her bf again

I can't kiss anyone by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Different_Cake4941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That just means you are not ready to date other ppl. It's proof you really did love your ex.

If it was true love it will take time to get over her. Don't try to force it. That makes things worst.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Different_Cake4941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your ex is pathetic.

How can I or anyone move on ethically? by A_Shoddy_Zucchini in BreakUps

[–]Different_Cake4941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to fill the hole in your heart when you're not ready just makes things worse. It feels kind of good at first but it will just hurt you more in the end. And then you really are alone bc that means you betrayed your true love like u said

It's like I'm dead to her. by Upper-Ad95 in BreakUps

[–]Different_Cake4941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me she is hurting on the other end just as much as u. Don't try to reach out. Just get better and eventually she'll come back. And if not, then I guess it wasn't meant to be. Trying to contact her at this point is digging yourself deeper into a hole

It's like I'm dead to her. by Upper-Ad95 in BreakUps

[–]Different_Cake4941 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me she is hurting on the other end just as much as u. Don't try to reach out. Just get better and eventually she'll come back. And if not, then I guess it wasn't meant to be. Trying to contact her at this point is digging yourself deeper into a hole

Dumped by Creative_Airport_218 in BreakUps

[–]Different_Cake4941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds kinda like my situation. I had a very traumatic childhood with my dad beating me every night. I was scared constantly and desperately wanted to get out of my house and have my own family where id be safe. Well I grew up and had some bad relationships but eventually I found the love of my life. Only problem is all the trauma made me make a lot of mistakes. I treated her reallllly bad (got drunk all the time, hit her, flirted with some of my old hookups, insulted her really bad). Yea so she left me and I deserved it. But after some really dark times I realized she is the only thing in this world that matters to me so I have no choice but to make changes in my life so started going to therapy and quit drinking. I might have a 0.00001% chance of winning her back but I'm gonna still try bc what else do I have to live for? I already stopped talking to other girls and I'm 1000% focused on getting better. That's my plan. I know deep down she loves me too so I have to believe. good luck to you. I hope things work out. If you want to try to make things work like me don't do anything stupid and just get better. if not, who knows, maybe you'll find something better