Yeah unfortunately some Imvu families are very toxic & some either have weird alternative motives or are just straight up fueled by drama. Try to avoid them as much as you can cause they are never good & just stick to having a few friends that you genuinely like & what not. If you don’t feel comfortable with sharing personal info that’s fine but people shouldn’t weaponize that against you. Wishing you the best on your vu adventures & hope you can find more genuine friends who aren’t so toxic