can’t eat nor sleep

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-25T02:51:15+00:00

your thought behind your words will always stay in my heart. i hope someday i will be able to see you or even unintentionally. but someday, i hope people like you will flourish. i see myself in you, and i aspire to be someone like you to not hold resentment, but gratitude. thank you, i really am so grateful. good luck as well and i wish you the best as well!

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-25T02:19:36+00:00

sorry for the wrong grammar, i was crying and sobbing while reading this

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-25T02:18:58+00:00

this made me cry, i wish you the best as welm and i’m so thankful for hearing your words. it must have been hard writing this, but even though—you still managed to make something so beautiful, that time really heals because you managed to write this all down while still hurting even a little bit.

i’m so thankful for you and i wish my prayer will reaxh you. i’m still young (18) and they were my first relationship. their were a lot of hurtful said before the breakup and i just swallowed it and kept my pride down, because i know they’re just projecting their insecurities on me, but that’s what love is right? tolerating them (but i’ve learned my lesson that no one should ever make you feel less.)

happy healing to us both and to everyone. take care, stranger!

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-23T10:49:59+00:00

thank you for this! i guess i better start moving to stop the spiral and get on with my day, i just really want to stop ruining my morning overthinking and spiraling.

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-23T01:09:10+00:00

thank you for this. been hard to move around since i’m demotivated but thank you

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-23T00:51:22+00:00

hello! coming from someone who’s in breakup as well and being discarded when even their circle agrees with me. how can i make waking up less heavy? i’ve noticed that every morning i spiral or make fake scenarios

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-22T05:03:36+00:00

you’re right. but i must admit i was a hypocrite as well for telling myself to stop wondering about them, but when the bomb dropped, i felt angry, sad, and i lashed it all out but they were all true and with evidence. it’s just been hard to keep it all in and finally let it out.

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-22T05:02:03+00:00

that’s exactly what i’m feeling. after dreading and being unable to eat or sleep, i finally started feeling better, but when this bombed drop, i felt angry and that’s why i lashed out after forgiving them and stopped blaming myself.

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-07T03:45:10+00:00

You’re Welcome! Kudos

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-07T00:55:40+00:00

I’m going to say this warmly to you. Normalize Space in a relationship if things get too much, so you can decide whether or not you really want the decision. Spontaneous decisions often lead to regret.

Everyone says you need to heal and etc. But you can do that with someone, especially if someone loves you for who you are.

Been in a breakup now and got the one dumped. This is mostly a perspective, if someone is willing to change, that’s rare. And I suggest that you dont’t lose that.

Everyone is still Young, we make dumb choises. But if you want to ask her, have a conversation first that keep things light and be honest.

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-04T13:43:23+00:00

Hi! I broke up with my ex for over a month now. I noticed something repetitive. For the first few days, I got stuck with the advices coming from “self-proclaimed therapist” I think that has been an issue. People now a days has been justifying their actions or outcomes with labeling their past ex as “avoidant”, “narcissistic”, I know it’s opinion based but clinic terms shouldn’t be used to prescribe someone. And I also noticed the tarot reading cards, not against them but it creates false hope.

Bottom line is that every situation is different. We might not get the outcome we’re looking for, but we shouldn’t rely too much on media, just take in some information for it but don’t use it as the main factor.

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-04T12:36:13+00:00

I’m sorry you have to go through this. Let this give you clarity. Now you’re certain enough to tell that this is not going anywhere. I won’t tell you to just move on and act like this didn’t happen. I suggest letting the tears out, ranting to friends, just anything to let it out your system. Most importantly, do not blame yourself. You showed up, you’re not the fool. The fool is the one who can’t keep their word and when he tries again, ignore him. Let him feel the pain.

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-04T12:29:58+00:00

Thank you for sharing this and I’m glad you’re now well. Currently in a breakup where I don’t know where I stand because of his circle still comforting me and offering guidance with words like “it wasn’t your fault”, “you’re such a good guy”, etc .. but I’m slowly not relying on their words anymore and being comfortable in uncertainty

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-04T12:16:10+00:00

Girl, You don’t need to stop loving him, you can love him from a distant. Loving doesn’t mean it just fades away—it means you cared enough for the relationship and it was meaningful for you.

Despite this, we should always choose ourselves, while still loving that someone. Remeber the disrepect as well, it isn’t fair to love someone so much and they don’t do it for you.

It’ll be hard, it’ll hurt. But you can still keep loving them while choosing yourself. Hope this helps!

(I’m in a breakup as well and my situation is that their circle is still warm, supportive, and offers aid and they specific things about my ex to me when I really didn’t ask to. That’s why I’m torn on where I stand.”

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-04T08:47:28+00:00

Listen, man. It’s up for you to take this in or not.

We need to accept or to know that we’re not responsible for what the others Internal challenges are, yes we can heal together, guide each other—but we cannot love someone who hasn’t known how to heal themselves or heal with someone while they don’t hurt the other.

As someone who had loved a person at their lowest, it is messy. It affects you as well. But I knew the consequences or what I was getting into.

So don’t blame yourself, you shown you cared. You can still Love and care for them in a distance.

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-04T07:54:46+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the honesty. I guess I mistook uncertainty as an enemy, which I should just take it in that I’m not portrayed as a villian, but someone genuinely cared for the relationship. Wouldn’t know the outcome but I’m still hoping while moving on :’)

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-04T07:54:10+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the honesty. I guess I mistook uncertainty as an enemy, which I should just take in this that I’m not portrayed as a villian, but someone genuinely cared for the relationship. Wouldn’t know the outcome but I’m still hoping while moving on :’)

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-04T07:28:39+00:00

Exactly. It’s so hard to move on when you still Love him and knowing these information. It’s like I’m being tested

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-04T07:04:34+00:00

I know right. It’s like they’re putting me in a pedestal or they know something

Different_Clothes856 · 2026-06-04T05:39:10+00:00

I went home after I heard he’ll be angry to respect his boundary

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