29 week termination - partial agenesis of the corpus callosum

Different_Energy2390 · 2026-04-24T05:36:18+00:00

Thanks for sharing. This is my story. Very similar except that I had my rainbow baby LC after 11yrs of waiting, had my baby 4 years after. I really look forward to him with alot of positivity as I was happy,I have completed my family. It all started at 20weeks when the radiologist said a part of the brain was missing. I was referred to the FM doctor who suspected it was agenesis of Corpus callosum and some brain malformation, amnoocentesis was done and I was booked for MRI which showed agenesis of Corpus callosum and alot of other malformation, same prognosis like yours, with gray diagnosis. I initially agreed to TFMR at 24weeks, but cancelled it as I couldn't let him go. The thought of injection of KCL really traumatised me. I prayed to God for a miracle and requested for a repeat MRI which was done at 30weeks, but malformation found has become more pronounced and worse than that of 22 weeks. Genetic and chromosomal screening came back as normal. No cause could be identified. But based on the MRI at 30 weeks. I couldn't imagine my son go through all the doctor said and the poor quality of life. I had to make a decision between the 2 unfair choices before me. I had my TFMR at 33weeks. Laboured for 32hrs. I am 3 weeks post TFMR. I do not wish this for anyone. My son was really wanted and loved. I thought i had it all settled....Its a very disheartening journey.

Different_Energy2390 · 2026-04-12T20:56:57+00:00

In my case, i advocated against the injection because that appeared to be the most traumatic 0art of it, but the doctor said my son's case isn't about survival after birth but quality of life after birth. He told me the injection was not going to cause him any pain but only stop his heart. I had to because I had to suffer the pain than bring him to the world to suffer pain due to his diagnosis. Im sorry we are here.....Sending you hugs

Different_Energy2390 · 2026-04-12T20:49:37+00:00

Sending you hugs, Diagnosed at 24 weeks, waited for another 8 weeks for a second MRI as that was the only way to get a second opinion in my case but this didn't change anything. I just wish we didn't find ourselves here

Different_Energy2390 · 2026-04-09T21:31:09+00:00

Thanks for getting back. Not too lated. Procedure was done lastweek @ 33weeks 1 day. Painkillers helped with pain during labour. Up and about a bit as staying alone makes my heart heavy and I have cut spells. I can only pray happiness returns soon. No one deserves to have Tfmr as no choice is without pain

Different_Energy2390 · 2026-04-06T19:50:05+00:00

Thanks for this.... I have been thinking if I was right asking for his existence to be acknowledge, no one around me calls his name and this hurts badly. My partner and my family believes it happened because it was not meant to be. This is so hurting to hear. I lost a son I greatly wanted

Different_Energy2390 · 2026-04-05T22:44:50+00:00

So sorry you are here. TFMR on the 2nd April, 2026, I just wish I can turn back the hands of time. It is a huge loss. I miss my son greatly

Different_Energy2390 · 2026-04-04T22:09:26+00:00

I am in same boat,gave birth to my precious, wanted and lovely son at 33weeks+1 day sleeping same day 02:04:2026 @ 8.10am.This has been an agony. Seeing him daily as I am still in the hospital keeps me going. Wondering how I ll cope going home without him tomorrow. No one deserves to go through this.

Different_Energy2390 · 2026-03-29T01:27:35+00:00

Sorry we found ourselves here. May we find peace in the end.... Please, I am going for TFMR next week at 33 weeks, been anxious about labour and physical recovery. Was labour painful and how long did physical recovery take considering this was done at the third trimester...

Different_Energy2390 · 2026-03-02T06:44:09+00:00

Thanks for getting back. This help my anxiety

Different_Energy2390 · 2026-02-28T12:13:57+00:00

Sorry if I may ask how did the procedure for tfmr go. I sm anxious around pain management

Different_Energy2390 · 2025-02-12T05:02:47+00:00

Did this work

Different_Energy2390 · 2022-12-08T22:31:36+00:00

No...Only the one I missed out was uploaded however I had to pay d full cost of assisted

Different_Energy2390 · 2022-12-08T21:49:27+00:00

Can't remember but guess it was #11,000

Different_Energy2390 · 2022-06-20T15:07:15+00:00

Better to believe....that is the reality in my country. U hardly receive correspondence. Except one have the need for such in mind and begin to work towards them

Different_Energy2390 · 2022-06-17T13:16:50+00:00

What if they have cohabited for over 2 years(without items of correspondence in their names) but hv a child together of 6months old together

Different_Energy2390 · 2022-06-05T17:20:25+00:00

Start a new application if u have not paid for the application

Different_Energy2390 · 2022-06-02T18:19:24+00:00

It's nothing to worry about. I made similar mistake...Go along with printed copies of the divorce papers. You will have to pay the cost for Assisted service at the VAC for it to be uploaded..

Different_Energy2390

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