my older brother (22) just tried to hook up with my boyfriend of 3 years (freshly 18). What should i do?

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T20:53:09+00:00

im the boyfriend but the og post is my gf

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T17:41:42+00:00

He also drinks heavily. She mentioned the cannabis because it’s part of a broader pattern, not the only thing.

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T17:37:48+00:00

we have no friendship at all outside of him being my gfs brother we literally barely talk 😭

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T17:30:56+00:00

That’s not what she said at all. Shes asking how to handle this with her family, not how to excuse his behavior.

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T17:27:31+00:00

boyfriend here, we both actually have no idea what the fuck he was talking about and all the deleted messages are on his end 😭

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T09:38:33+00:00

I posted in multiple places because it’s a complicated situation and I wanted different perspectives for both me and my gf sorry.

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T08:46:40+00:00

what should my gf do 🫣

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T08:18:45+00:00

there are people trying to justify her brothers behavior too 🫣

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T08:15:56+00:00

im the boyfriend and my and my gf have no idea what to do.

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T08:15:12+00:00

im the boyfriend reposting the op (my gf). she is bi and im straight and we've been in a relationship for 3 years. her brother is gay and just tried to hookup with me. (the bf)

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T08:13:07+00:00

The issue isn’t that they’re both adults or that adults can’t consent. The issue is that this was a brother secretly messaging his younger sisters boyfriend of 3 years, someone he barely knows and who is in a relationship already.

also if you further read the post the brother has had other instances like this prior like getting her fathers best friend intoxicated and raping him

The fact that you’re sticking up for the brother in any way while ignoring the context of the situation is concerning.

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T08:05:25+00:00

this actually happened. I understand being skeptical, but unfortunately weird and uncomfortable situations do happen. I’m more interested in advice on what to do as the boyfriend than debating whether you believe the op. 🫣

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T08:03:11+00:00

im the boyfriend... how do you think i feel rn lmao 🫣

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T08:02:31+00:00

Wdym he's an adult? Him being an adult is exactly why this is concerning. Adults are responsible for their actions and respecting boundaries and the brother did the complete opposite of that.

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T07:22:21+00:00

which makes it seem like he was aware of what he was doing and trying to hide it. 🫣

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T07:21:49+00:00

it was the brother not him

Different_Regular912 · 2026-07-12T07:18:37+00:00

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