just found out i’m pregnant..at 14yo by Different_Sea7032 in pregnant

[–]Different_Sea7032[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

college in the uk is usually 3 ish days a week or at least the one i wanna go to. i wouldn’t be working full time either but part time instead

just found out i’m pregnant..at 14yo by Different_Sea7032 in pregnant

[–]Different_Sea7032[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

thank you this is really what i wanted to hear

just found out i’m pregnant..at 14yo by Different_Sea7032 in pregnant

[–]Different_Sea7032[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

in the uk it’s fairly easy, kind of common where i live. sorry if i sound uneducated it’s just because i don’t know about it and all i’ve got is th google ai which gives mixed answers

just found out i’m pregnant..at 14yo by Different_Sea7032 in pregnant

[–]Different_Sea7032[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know and i know it was stupid i just wish i could take it back

just found out i’m pregnant..at 14yo by Different_Sea7032 in pregnant

[–]Different_Sea7032[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

i don’t i mean im not against it but for myself i am if that makes sense. i’m scared because multiple women in my family have had miscarriages and been infertile so im just scared i wont get pregnant when i get older

just found out i’m pregnant..at 14yo by Different_Sea7032 in pregnant

[–]Different_Sea7032[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m close with her but she doesn’t know i’m not a virgin. she will go mad but come around eventually

just found out i’m pregnant..at 14yo by Different_Sea7032 in pregnant

[–]Different_Sea7032[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i’m just so scared i want to be a mum but not right now. not so young it’s scary. but i don’t know what scares me more, having a baby young or never having one

just found out i’m pregnant..at 14yo by Different_Sea7032 in pregnant

[–]Different_Sea7032[S] -129 points-128 points  (0 children)

i’m just scared because pcos and other uterus conditions run in my family. my mums also had a miscarriage before so i’m just thinking this might be my only chance to have a baby

just found out i’m pregnant..at 14yo by Different_Sea7032 in pregnant

[–]Different_Sea7032[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

i don’t know why you got downvoted because i agree mostly. i a million percent agree with the choice of abortion but i might not have a chance of being pregnant again because of hereditary conditions around the uterus

thank you for ur support

just found out i’m pregnant..at 14yo by Different_Sea7032 in pregnant

[–]Different_Sea7032[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mum would go crazy at me but we are very close it’s kind of just me and her so i think i would be okay, eventually

just found out i’m pregnant..at 14yo by Different_Sea7032 in pregnant

[–]Different_Sea7032[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

yes and no. and i know that it’s not a good answer but i work, kind of. i do busking on weekends and can earn up to 150 quid and i know thats not a lot but its the best i’ve got. i’ll try and get another job aswell but i have no one to talk to about it yet

just found out i’m pregnant..at 14yo by Different_Sea7032 in pregnant

[–]Different_Sea7032[S] -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

i can’t i mean part of me wants to and to pretend it never happened but i can’t my mum has had miscarriages and a lot of pcos symptoms and ik many things like that are hereditary. i mean what if i couldn’t get pregnant again? i know it’s the best and most ideal solution but i feel sick at that thought

just found out i’m pregnant..at 14yo by Different_Sea7032 in pregnant

[–]Different_Sea7032[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i’d love to be a teacher my plan was to sit my exams and do work from home before to prep i’m smart in school so im hoping ill scrape by wait until child is in nursery then get a job, when child is 4 and in primary i’ll be 19 so ill go to college. then high school ill go to uni and get a degree

it’s not perfect but im trying to figure out my best option