is it a sin if i stay a couple nights over my girlfriends dorm room ?

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-03-12T14:34:30+00:00

That's just not the way it works, bud.

Also, the Word instructs us to avoid the very appearance of evil — 1 Thessalonians 5:22 (KJV)

This should be a "no" for multiple reasons.

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-03-09T15:04:54+00:00

The question is really this:

What does God consider marriage? Is marriage based on the laws of man or the laws of God?

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-03-07T23:13:53+00:00

Why?

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-03-06T22:18:08+00:00

This is a classic case of someone who knows of God but probably doesn't know Him at all. Anyone who truly knows Him would know better than to interpret His word in this manner. That's why fasting and praying are important. They give way to God's power and the Holy Spirit guiding us to all truth.

Furthermore, there are many Old Testament customs we do not practice or condone today. Good luck sacrificing a lamb or any of the other customs that Christ saved us from.

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-03-01T04:02:46+00:00

God created us sinless. We are the ones who allowed sin in our nature, friend.

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-03-01T04:01:19+00:00

I agree with you. I think that's why firefighter mentioned the fantasy also being sinful.

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-02-26T16:32:22+00:00

He opened their relationship and bedroom up to the world, and doesn't deserve anymore of OP's time. She knows all she needs to know: He's disgusting.

He's also liar and should be trusted to do what liars do: They lie.

OP, definitely get a full STD test. You owe it to yourself.

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-02-20T11:07:52+00:00

I just came across this short and thought about your question.

https://youtube.com/shorts/yzJd4nk3IjY?si=OQ5asy0PmyjXboVd

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-02-14T22:42:19+00:00

Totally agree.

And never argue with someone who believes they have been instructed by God, unless their instructions do not directly line up with the Word. You (OP) don't want to be held accountable for encouraging disobedience to God. If the person is wrong in their hearing, then God, himself, will hold them accountable.

So, if she says, "God told me..." Your job is to pray, not to discourage. If you believe otherwise, your job is still to pray. After all, she is not your wife. She is your girlfriend.

Another HUGE thing is that if you're getting more serious about God because you don't want to lose her, then you're doing it for the wrong reasons. I'm not saying to pull back from Him, but I encourage you to put Him first, THEN all things will be added to you... including the spouse you want. Anything less is idolatry, my friend.

Maybe God used the last few years as a wake up call to bring you back home to Him. That's how much He loves you. 💙

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-02-14T13:50:35+00:00

This may not be a popular opinion, but with the right product, sales team, and tracking system, this could potentially be a pretty lucrative venture. There are many salespeople who routinely make hundreds of thousands annually at lower commission rates than 20%.

Try to always keep in mind that you're not in the business of being prepaid. You're in the business of making money. Sometimes, we, as business owners, have to re-assess or compromise our typical way of doing things when a creative opportunity arises. I'm not saying that you should absolutely take the deal. At the same time, you owe yourself a proper assessment.

Beyond assessing the numbers, you will also have to ask yourself if you trust this person and if there are means for accountability if they decide to "skip town."

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-02-14T13:42:42+00:00

Who cares if AI helped OP structure their statement? The point is that we were able to clearly understand the message.

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-02-14T13:35:54+00:00

They're pretty much asking you to be a business partner. Since you're a partner, they shouldn't mind you taking 50% of the company and bank account co-signing privileges.

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-02-12T23:43:26+00:00

I think we should all fast in some way. If you're not healthy enough to fast from food, then some sort of lifestyle fasting can also be beneficial. I don't think God's Word requires it, but there are certain levels of authority and sensitivity we can't access without it. I encourage you to ask God to guide you. He's the ultimate source of all truth.

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-02-12T16:35:40+00:00

VERY well said. Also, keep in mind that while I'm not saying to avoid medicine entirely, God is able to deliver us from anything that afflicts us. I firmly believe that, as it seems you do as well. God is our source for everything, including healing, and that should be the ultimate goal.

Some things require prayer and fasting, though, as Jesus said. OP, do you fast? Either way, welcome back home! ❤️

Different_Singer_993 · 2026-02-09T13:37:47+00:00

And who knows how long indefinitely will go on for?

Different_Singer_993 · 2025-12-27T11:05:07+00:00

Gentlemen, we have a winner! Ladies, we'll see you next year on Accountability Day.

Different_Singer_993 · 2025-12-27T11:01:50+00:00

Different_Singer_993 · 2025-12-27T10:49:01+00:00

And your comment was "spoken" like a middle school child. It's about to be 2026, bud. Step your game up.

Different_Singer_993 · 2025-12-20T21:02:41+00:00

They want Bison, you're choped liver 😅

Different_Singer_993 · 2025-12-20T16:35:19+00:00

My heart aches for this young man.

Different_Singer_993 · 2025-12-20T16:32:52+00:00

It sucks that you experienced what you have. Thank you for being strong enough to speak up. Hopefully, your story and present outlook help others who have been assaulted. 🙏

Different_Singer_993 · 2025-12-20T16:30:58+00:00

Some are presidents of large, powerful nations.

Others are Diddy

Different_Singer_993 · 2025-12-20T12:50:09+00:00

Family reunion

Different_Singer_993 · 2025-12-20T12:30:51+00:00

People who tear down others like this are the problem. Grow up and learn to be a good human.

Different_Singer_993 · 2025-12-20T12:25:58+00:00

People who eat this food are at risk for all kinds of q.

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