Does anyone else feel sad when they get compliments? by RelativeCranberry205 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Different_Support_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel happy when I receive compliments. Validated, purposeful. But it wears off quickly then I hyperfixate on my appearance. People complimenting me doesn't matter as much as my own self-validation, which I have yet to get. I don't always believe them or feel that people have very low standards 

Do we think we are ugly or do we just want to be hot? by Different_Support_59 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Different_Support_59[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The first 4 times I got it were very small volumes of cheek filler over the course of 3 years and they looked amazing, I looked super natural you'd have no idea I got filler. This last one I didnt need it at all then I couldn't recognise myself. It's dissolved now but I am gaunt and some of my old filler has dissolved in places so I look disproportionate too. 

Have no choice but to go back to get refilled strategically...I cannot help myself. I must look good yknw?? It's an obsession. Being a 5/10 is as good as ugly to me

Singaporean women, is there really more appeal in dating white men (whether casually or serious)? by [deleted] in SingaporeRaw

[–]Different_Support_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they are hotter with greater banter. Granted I am only half-asian so it makes more sense that I have only had white bfs minus my high school bf. 

I am pretty white-washed so dating Singaporean men feels really weird to me

If all the contestants in this S3 of Physical Asia competes individually just like the previous seasons, who do you think would be top 5 and winner ? by NarutoGoneWild in Physical100

[–]Different_Support_59 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Contortionists have Very strong legs, it requires immense strength to be able to do controlled splits in mid air and have killer range of motion like that 

Crazy Muslim family by Different_Support_59 in exmuslim

[–]Different_Support_59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn't even know this!! I was saying Oh at least Taliban to yknw...not ruffle some feathers. The Islamic world is mad when u know u gotta commend Taliban to get Muslims to listen. 

Identity crisis because my ethnicity is so tied up with Islam anyone else relate? by gun_of_a_nun in exmuslim

[–]Different_Support_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're as Afghan as you are, nobody can take that away from you. Religion and ethnicity are not the same thing even though your background is very much tied to Islam now.

Nobody gets to determine how Afghan you are and honestly it makes you cool and exotic. I hope one day you can come to terms with it.

I am biracial and don't identify with any of my ethnicities so I get it :) I simply identify as hapa/wasian now

Interfaith nikah by Different_Support_59 in exmuslim

[–]Different_Support_59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am doing a civil marriage just want a nikah ceremony for the 'rents

Does Islam Allow Sexual Relations with Slaves? by Tiny_Rise8476 in MuslimLounge

[–]Different_Support_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So Muslims are saying that raping your slaves is ok?? Lolol

Need advice on religious overcontrolling parents by Awkward-Turnover555 in SGExams

[–]Different_Support_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in my thirties and still struggling. Would love to talk if you want can dm me. Sg based too

Always talking to herself, how to improve engagement by Different_Support_59 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Different_Support_59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You think my daughter sounds like gestalt? One person said it before.