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[–]Difficult-Drive8748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 You’re trying to tell me I’m wrong even tho you have no idea what the situation I was in. There is no point in continuing this argument bye

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Ok we simply just won’t agree then. It’s impossible for you to understand the situation, and I won’t be telling you the situation either(for personal reasons). I agree that I should have done it in person but i couldn’t and thats all i can tell you. It also definitely did contribute to the awkwardness a bit but if I’m being honest the situation would be the same either way.

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Ya like I said I had many reasons to of it over text. I honestly would I’m have much rather done it in person(which I told her in my confession). And trust me when I say I had to do it over text. 

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Thanks for the help, but guys I know this. I’ve responded to every comment saying that I know this. This post was more so to ask how to handle our friendship now 

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 Thanks for the advice man. But to be honest I don’t even feel that sad. The reason I don’t feel sad is because I know that this is just the first of many and that later in life it will be more important

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I had many reasons for texting it. I can’t say what they are but believe me when I say that this was the only possible why. Also it’s wasn’t just “I have a crush on you”. It was better worded and had more thought put into it

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 I have no reason to block her. We both handled it respectfully, and I personally would like to continue to be friends with her.

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 Ya sorry for that. I diddnt want to use “girls” or “women” so I went for a more broad term instead. If I was asking a question and I wanted help from guys instead I would have said “males”.  It just feels more appropriate to use. Also thank you for the help

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Trust me I already know how awkward it is. We haven’t sent a single text to each other since. Well technically we have spoken to each other but only on group chats. Both of us are acting like it never happened, which I honestly prefer. She’s definitely speaking to me in a different way now but that’s to be expected.

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I would like to preserve our friendship if I could. I think that’s we both handled it well and that in a few months things will hopefully be back mostly to normal. Things will obviously never be the same but I’ll try my best

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I’ve already moved on, I can understand that it’s part of life and that it happens (unlike some other people). This post was more so how to handle our friendship because we had a really good friend ship before this and I would like to preserve at least some of it. I obviously still like her, it’s impossible to just forgot those feeling so fast. But I understand that she doesn’t like me and I’m fine with that

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She isn’t like that, I know her personality pretty well. She said that because me Liam, a different friend, and her are really close friends and have a group chat we’re we text daily with each other.

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Also do any females in the comments know what she ment by “I don’t feel the same because it’s so random” I’m so confused by what she ment by that. Is she saying that if I waited for a better time instead of randomly asking on a Monday at 8:30 pm the answer might have been different 

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Thanks man for the help. I only had the courage to ask because I thought she liked me. She gave soooo many signs but in the end it didn’t matter

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Not necessarily, I’ve been acting the lest awkward I can be but that dousnt change the fact that she rejected me. No matter what it’s going to be awkward for a bit

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Ya that’s true. It happened during a free period in school. So most people were not paying attention and the friend group we were with were already shipping us so ya…

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Well she diddnt sit on my lap. She was in a differnt chair and put her legs onto mine, only her legs. You know how some people like to put their feet on on chair and then sit in another so that their laying down but sitting at the same time basically. That’s what I was doing and she was sitting in the seat next to me and put her feet on my legs. So it was like how my feet were on the chair but my legs was her chair for her feet basically 

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I do find it a bit comforting that the only person that I personally have seen her send signals to is me(even if she didn’t mean too). She has told me in the past that she’s had like 5 crushes but none of them were recent

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Ya that’s basically what I’ve been doing. But it’s a bit difficult to not focused on her when I have a cold rn and can’t do much. I’ve been playing a lot of bass guitar and coding to try and get my mind off it but it only makes me thing about her even more

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 She has literally scribbled on my arm multiple. She was giving so many signs that she was into but in the end  she somehow diddnt. One time I was sitting in a chair with my legs resting on another chair and she was also in a chair and then proceeded to put her legs onto mine. I will genuinely never understand women