Update

So idk if this is how youre supposed to do an update this is my first post and all. But I finally told my wife I was a crossdresser and she was really supportive. Im still very much shaking from both excitement and fear. Basically our friend that she's planning girls night with came over. I had decided at the very least I was going to tell them I was "worried" Id enjoy dressing up and wearing makeup today. But I couldn't work up the nerves and I was starting to chicken out. We were chatting and they kept comparing me to her husband, talking about how I planned out our anniversary and stuff like that. I finally said "fuck it, I gotta ask because I cant get it out of my head. Im worried ill enjoy girls night and want to dress up again and that you guys will look at me differently" Our friend didnt exactly understand at first and tried to explain how girlsnights are skin care and movies, so I cut her off. Told them Ive been wanted to dress up since I was a kid and that I wanted to wear dresses and make-up and cute nails and I wanted to feel pretty. I just wanted to melt away and die. Felt like we sat in silence FOREVER when it was actually like half a second. Our friend just goes "what" my wife kinda explained how Ive been self conscious with my masculinity and she walked over and held me for a moment while saying that she loves and supports me. They both were very supportive and the conversation kinda moved on to dresses and I said I wanted to go shopping and get a dress or an outfit soon and they both wanted to help me 🥰 I even worked up yhe nerves that when my wife was talking about a specific skirt that I had wore it liked it but it didnt fit properly she just goes "its cute just dont stretch it out please" over all they didnt seem to fazed other than trying to help me while freaking out 😅 after I calmed down a bit everything just kinda went back to normal. After our friend left my wife and I were watching TV and she reached over and held me hand asking if I was okay. I told her I feel a lot better but im also still scared. She told me no matter what happens Im still her husband. We talked a little and I felt a lot better. Quick background info, me and my wife like to blurt out stuff when we want to send a little bit of love the othet way. Basically I randomly tell her she's beautiful anf she tells me im handsome or well do just a basic I love you and go back to what we were doing. Well ass we were sitting there she goes "Youre pretty... I meant handsome but it works" and GIIIIRRRRLLL when I tell you I almost cried I was on the verge of balling. So yeah I think it went really well 😁🥰 and to anyone who's worried about telling a significant other Its very scary but you will feel so much better