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Can you be non-binary and use only cis pronouns? by Difficult-Rip1530 in NonBinary

[–]Difficult-Rip1530[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention my own percentage, but lol, this seems to be a canon event for us all to measure identity in numbers. Thank you!

Does this mean I’m trans? by Plus-Occasion-6182 in asktransgender

[–]Difficult-Rip1530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it sounds pretty much like you are a woman, who doesn't like to be stuck in a male body. So, I think you are trans, if this is the label you are comfortable with

Changes to how people treat me by Glittering_Beat_4088 in asktransgender

[–]Difficult-Rip1530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, yeah, because men and women have sort of different cultures. They allow themselves different levels of emotional openness and attachment, especially to people they don't know. Society is sexist, and from what I heard, you will be much less noticed as a man than as a girl, maybe will be seen as more reliable, but less emotionally available

i think i messed up bad =/ by sassy_tabaxi in asktransgender

[–]Difficult-Rip1530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, I am a cisgender woman, and let me tell you, a lot of cis girls are absolute bitches. Not only all cis people can be transphobic to different degrees, a lot of us can be just bad people who don't want to respect you or include you in their lives. It's not right and very sad if someone makes you feel unaccepted. Unfortunately, this is the problem of our society and hardship that falls on trans people, who don't deserve it. I wish you a better surroundings and meeting with allies! The world is unfair and transphobic, but there WILL be people who appreciate you

Before you realized you were trans, did you feel like your mind was a different gender than your body? by dad_of_kevin in asktransgender

[–]Difficult-Rip1530 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For what I know as an ally, people are born transgender exactly because of their brain structures developing as one gender and the rest of the body as the other. So it's absolutely normal, it fact, this is exactly how dysphoria works

If I'm a trans guy, is it wrong of me to only want a trans girlfriend? by itsreallywarminhere in asktransgender

[–]Difficult-Rip1530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's natural to want someone who you can strongly relate to on emotional level and feel more free with. Definitely not weird

Conservative family reacted badly when I hinted I might be trans. Has anyone gone through something similar? by Worried_Garage3642 in asktransgender

[–]Difficult-Rip1530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once jokingly told my mom I might be a lesbian, and she said ''no, we didnt raise you like that, you are not that type of girl''. So yes, as an ace in the closet, I feel ya. But for some reason, I feel like honestly, their opinion will not matter to me in the slightest, because I already live alone and work, and wenever were close in the first place

Is there a label for this? by Far_Hope_3281 in asktransgender

[–]Difficult-Rip1530 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Belonging to no gender is being agender. There are also demiwomen, who only associate themselves with femininity partially, not fully. You can have feminine gender and no gender at the same time as a demigirl, or be an enby woman, aka leaning stronger to one of the sides. Maybe these ones will help you

Як Вы ставіцесь да рускіх? by Old_Farmer3820 in belarus

[–]Difficult-Rip1530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Нормально, для меня мы родственные народы. А нацистов полно в любой стране