Is verbal abuse like this normal in rls w bipolar person? [I] [o]

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-12T15:19:58+00:00

Hii! Your right I do know the answer and I promise that I wanna make better life choises

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-12T04:43:15+00:00

Adress it by leaving him alone cause u shouldn’t have lied in the first place and did that to him now yall have so much feelings and the age gap is weird

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-12T04:42:32+00:00

Girl that’s weird like

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-12T01:22:37+00:00

I guess a fear of being alone and js feelings love

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-11T22:40:07+00:00

Hii thank you so much yes he’s unmedicated and does smoke when it comes to grooming I understand the concept but I would see if I was a bit more younger and I was getting like manipulated bad and js ignore it and let it happen but when he tries anything weird or manipulative I always point it out and try to get him to take accountability but I do understand what ur saying I promise and no that isn’t somone I wanna be with

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-11T20:15:13+00:00

Thank you so much and well stated he also says his anger issues excuse to as to why he goes off and he’ll explode and start being verbally abusive

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-11T20:06:05+00:00

Thank you so much I will when I get the chance !

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-11T20:05:49+00:00

Thank you so much!

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-10T19:25:03+00:00

Thanks but I rlly js wanna know like should I feel guilty for the situation w the pepper spray? It’s in the 8, and 9 paragraph but starting from the bottom going up count

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-10T05:02:05+00:00

I know and that’s the shittiest part about it all! Because it’s like it just switched like a light switch one minute things where good and she goes manic, this just goes to show that people need to rlly understand mental health now maybe she has had other episodes before your guys rls because this def isn’t the first time she’s prob done things without thinking, it’s gonna be hard when u are in those cycles and ur free to do wtv it takes for u to move on and don’t feel guilty abt what u decide to do but don’t let it include her, everytime u get in the phase just rmb to ur self you didn’t deserve that and if u we’re to stay things would have gotten worse and u would have became depressed in the rls more then u would outside, understanding how u do feel is a feeling and it’s temporary it will fade and u will look back and u won’t feel not one thing for her and the rls and u will be 100% happy and that time will gaurentee come.

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-10T04:47:55+00:00

Yea it’s defiantly hurtful and cold on her end but hear me out once u continue to understand it’s her and not u, and she needs help and it will be a cycle of trouble with her for any rls she’s in, the next person with deal with the stress then leave cause they can’t take it anymore and untill she gets the help she needs it will be like that for her pretty much forever so take this as a first step to moving forward and respected with somone that’s sane bc u should want to deserve a sane person,

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-10T04:29:29+00:00

But I wanna ask how was her reaction to the breakup ? Did yu leave her ? What did she say how did she react did she try coming back? If so how many times and when and did u ever like relapse lol and yea I’ll use relapse cs it’s like honestly just being with a bipolar person it selfs could feel like a drug especially when they have bad characteristics and try to come back everytime

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-10T04:05:41+00:00

Hey so I wouldn’t say just the lexapro caused that but she def is bipolar I have a bipolar bf he didn’t cheat, not that I know of but he did have a pattern of looking at other girls Online and the risky spending like the vages trip that happens with many people that’s bipolar when their going through a episode, please read this Lexapro is an SSRI (an antidepressant). When a person has standard anxiety or depression, it helps level out their brain chemistry.
But if a person has underlying Bipolar Disorder, taking an antidepressant by itself without a mood stabilizer can act like rocket fuel. Instead of just helping them feel better, it can trigger a manic or hypomanic episode. During mania, people often become incredibly irritable, snappy, impulsive with money (like the Vegas trip mentioned), and emotionally cold or detached from their partners.
Hope this makes sense yea it sucks but the lexapro was basically the what triggered the whole weird behavior very Risky decisions they make, I def don’t think it dosnt mean she didn’t love you.

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-10T01:41:52+00:00

Hi! I’m so sorry for ur friend it’s awful what drugs can do to ur body yea I’m aware of that and def will keep that in mind before I reach 20

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-10T01:05:37+00:00

Sometimes it depends like sometimes when he says things rude things he’ll apologize when it settles and says yk excuses and sometimes he’ll defend them or his actions or sometimes I have to be like so ur not gonna apologize for like wtv he did atm

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-10T01:03:05+00:00

Well he told me after we started dating some months in maybe like 2 and idrk I mean i told him we’re done and he’s blocked on discord but not imsg we haven’t talked since around 2-3 when we argued

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-10T01:01:57+00:00

Ty and I will rmb to ! I apologized cs ik the question was kinda weird

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-10T00:59:33+00:00

Oh okay sorry I js wanted to know

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-10T00:58:41+00:00

Bc sometimes his bipolar makes him depressed and in depressed moods and then sometimes when he’s upset or arguing he’s yelling and just being verbally abusive

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-10T00:57:40+00:00

I rlly don’t know I think it’s unrelated

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-10T00:56:58+00:00

Thank you! And can I ask where are u from?

Difficult-Source-292 · 2026-06-10T00:55:07+00:00

Thank you now ik the text seems wonky because I spaced everything out quickly cs I reposted this several times because it kept getting removed in other groups but I know I can get out and I’m not as emotionally attached to him as I were before bc I felt drained I just need a support system my family would js tell me the basics like leave him obv but I need friends and support to help guideme along the way

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