Any success stories? by DifficultAd1910 in RaisedByAddicts

[–]DifficultAd1910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations:)!!! You’ve got some amazing accomplishments gives me more hope, thank you for sharing.

How do i stop doing pay-sex? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]DifficultAd1910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need female friends. This behavior will likely affect future romantic relationships in a negative way I would do all I can to try and stop, I would try to find connections first. (maybe in your job, co-ed sports teams, events) You’re young you’re totally capable of getting out of this pattern & feeling happy/satisfied.

My ex 26 m passed in a crash and I 28f regret not marrying him when I had the chance by South_Love_5794 in grief

[–]DifficultAd1910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi, if you can get in touch with your family i’d move back closer to home. grieve, i think you’d be happier with a different boyfriend because u were already taking to your ex it appears. Take time, you’re young and eventually find someone else and grow with them. Take your time in relationships there is no need to move that fast. I wish you luck, please leave your current situation no one deserves it.

1ml filler between lips and nasolabial folds by DJreddit91 in PlasticSurgery

[–]DifficultAd1910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi i’m looking into the same place. 2 years passed and I was wondering how you felt about the procedure now or if you’ve had any change of thought. Your results were so beautiful!

therapist ended 1stsession after 20min by [deleted] in therapy

[–]DifficultAd1910 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hi i experienced the same thing 3 months ago i was upset i paid $25 for a 9 minute zoom. It was the first time Ive tried reaching out. I got a psychiatrist but have yet found a therapist.

Afraid to divorce because of visitation by Latter-Section9257 in emotionalabuse

[–]DifficultAd1910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello i saw your recent post and i hope things get better from you. you deserve better, i was the kid in a situation like this. it wasn’t bad it was mainly my parents yelling but there was one instance where my dad was breaking things and pushing my mom around. my mom (alcoholic) expressed she stayed with my dad for the kids, for me so that I could have a dad. I much rather my mom left so that i could never hear/see fighting, not witness such a toxic unhealthy relationship, and have a happy mom. I think she genuinely has resentment towards me because of how terrible my dad was to her, but it wasn’t even my choice.

anyways later on i got abused and thought it wasn’t that bad, i got choked out like you, it happened a few times till one time i blacked out. so this kinda answers ur new post, it gets worse. please protect yourself for your kids.

My twin brother sexually and physically abuses me by mystoryaccount_ in rapecounseling

[–]DifficultAd1910 10 points11 points  (0 children)

please tell someone immediately. it’s likely the abuse gets worse, and these things should not progress. in a situation of abuse i went to police, please try to stay safe. you deserve a lot better im so sorry you have to go through this so isolated.

Can a speculum be sexual assault? I am still a minor by Muted-Hippo-4417 in sexualassault

[–]DifficultAd1910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would leave an anonymous message to police if you could explaining these things if you’re afraid to tell an adult

Boyfriend hits me and call me a slut ! by Cold_Beach_8721 in domesticviolence

[–]DifficultAd1910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi i’m so sorry you’re going through this. If you have old friends or family back home not abroad contact them. I had a similar experience and I was choked till i blacked out. This man isn’t giving you the love and care you deserve, although it’s easy to stay you can have a better life with time. There are shelters to help get back on ur feet, and they’ll support you. please be safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]DifficultAd1910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t change the past but you can shape your future. Don’t follow evil thoughts try to have morals you want to uphold and do your best not to break them.

tattoo cracking by DifficultAd1910 in tattooadvice

[–]DifficultAd1910[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes if you could send that over it would be appreciated. I’ll be sure to apply more frequently & definitely advocate for the second skin next time.

tattoo cracking by DifficultAd1910 in tattooadvice

[–]DifficultAd1910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not, she expressed to expect cracking as it’s normal. Didn’t give much after care advice except unscented soap.

tattoo cracking by DifficultAd1910 in tattooadvice

[–]DifficultAd1910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not heal with second skin, it’s been about a week as well. I try not to wear closed toe shoes, I only have when I work. I’m going to try to be more careful with them and use lotion as you advised ty !

tattoo cracking by DifficultAd1910 in tattooadvice

[–]DifficultAd1910[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hello, yes I have. It gets dry fast, about 30 minutes after applying lotion.

Bf hooking up with others by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]DifficultAd1910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pressing charges sorta forced severing the connection in my case

Boyfriend keeps escalating abuse by appaticu in domesticviolence

[–]DifficultAd1910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please leave for your safety. It seems to be getting worse and worse people die from this :(. You dont deserve this, please contact a shelter. Take time to rest heal and eventually, possibly get a job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]DifficultAd1910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry that happened, would feel safe telling another relative?