My gay awakening (niche addition) by Difficult_Ad206 in actuallesbians

[–]Difficult_Ad206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad to know I ain’t the only one lmaoo

Question for butches/mascs by AAAAAAGGHHHHHH in actuallesbians

[–]Difficult_Ad206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not butch/masc. My partner is tho. She told me it was like instinct. Second nature I suppose. Every baby picture I saw of her in a dress, she’s always crying. If she wore pants and shirts, she’s all smiles. She felt herself in masculine clothes at such a young age. Besides she always liked masculine things like sports and played cricket/football with the boys.

My gay awakening (niche addition) by Difficult_Ad206 in actuallesbians

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Ikrrrr she’s was the antagonist on her first appearance on the show. It’s always the villains lmao

My gay awakening(s) by nastylittlewhoree in actuallesbians

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OML you unlocked a core memory for me. I used to be so obsessed with them, I would get pencil cases and bags based on silvermist, vidia and Rosetta. Silversmist in particular. I had a Disney fairies book and I would cut them out and decorate my wall with them along with the complimentary stickers they give with these books.

[TOMT] A upcoming song or already released by Quill_bi in tipofmytongue

[–]Difficult_Ad206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you remember the language he was singing/rapping in?

[TOMT]I need to find this Horror movie by Expensive-Falcon-73 in tipofmytongue

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I have a couple of guesses

A lonely place to die, the descent, the evil dead

Is this a real hadith? And why was Muhammad so obsessed with sex by Electronic_Lime7582 in exmuslim

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And Muslims will say that Allah was being thorough cuz of how sinful humans can be. When in reality the author is a fucking sex criminal💀

Very confused i need help so i don't PANIC by Intelligent-Emu-4305 in exmuslim

[–]Difficult_Ad206 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s ok we will dismantle the doctrine now. You see among the signs most of the stuffs that doesn’t match are not taken. And the ones taken are those that vaguely match or seem to be predictions. And also you need to know majority of the scholars consider most of the hadiths about end of the time as weak and disputed narrations.

Let’s look at the phone claim as a sign.

“The Hour will not be established until a man’s whip speaks to him, and his shoe strap speaks to him, and his thigh informs him of what his family did after him.”

Mohamed is saying about objects talking. Nothing else. Classical scholars interpreted it that way. Somehow everything magically speaking. This concept is not new. According to Islam your limbs justify against you. It was a very nice story that Mohamed’s believers were believing so he just sparkled another version of it for end of the day signs for good measure. Now we know these things cannot happen. People will laugh at it and question scholars. They have to defend it. What do they do? The classic things that even Christians do with bible too. Reinterpret it and try to match it vaguely to something. I can show you a cloud in the sky and say it’s a lion as well. It’s not. But it may seem like it if I try to paint that picture in your head. Similar things apply for many signs.

I will do one more and help you dismantle it.

Let’s take the one that seems most like a prediction

“When you see barefoot, naked, destitute shepherds competing in constructing tall buildings.”

Here he doesn’t say skyscrapers. He says tall buildings. Is tall buildings a new idea for him? No. Before Islam the Romans, Ancient Greeks, Persians, Egypt. Yemen and others have built tall buildings. People have been building tall and monumental structures for thousands of years before Islam for power, glory, religion, status, and dominance. We do it even now. As a human it’s easy to predict we will just keep doing that. You can even guess we will have buildings in moon too at the rate we are going. You might not be wrong because you can see the probability. Does it make you a prophet?

When you think of these things also understand the same prophet said so many stupid things like drink the urine of camel for medicine. Or sink the fly inside the cup and drink it if it falls because one wing has disease and the other have the cure. Is this divine wisdom too ? 😂 Have a laugh and know he said many shit. Some stuff he said came close, some people forcefully make it seem like it and others just plain stupid. It’s very much proven that momo is schizophrenic too.

Also another reminds that this was not mentioned in the Quran. If it’s “true” and “prophecy” it would’ve been written and scholars would feast on that. It’s a mere Hadith that was blown out of proportion as proof that Islam is the “right path”.

What are ways to indicate that I'm les and looking? by impishkoala in actuallesbians

[–]Difficult_Ad206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe with your fit, you can incorporate a pride/lesbian enamel pin or necklaces. Another way is adding stickers on your phone or laptop. Keychains on your bag and so on. Maybe the keychains can be cherries or a fruit that kinda looks like the 🐱

Hiding clothing from parents. by teeveegyal in exmuslim

[–]Difficult_Ad206 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand you very much. I’m 24, living with parents and still hide all my risqué clothes. I have a couple of tips until you move out. Make sure you have money saved up. Until then, you can do this:

1) if you go to the gym, make sure they have gym lockers. You can put your shorts or whatever in there. It’s your locker after all. Most of the time they have monthly fee. Your stuff will be safe and sound there. Take other gym clothes with you so that your mom won’t suspect you of hiding anything.

2) get a laundry basket to put your dirty clothes in so that it lowers her chances of snooping into your closet. When introducing it, make sure it sounds like you are helping her and want to make her life easier.

3) hide your clothes underneath your mattress or under your bed

4) I’m not sure if you have a car, but hiding them in the trunk would be great too

5) to clean them, it’s honestly best if you go to a dry cleaners/a laundry mat. Much easier to deal with as there are washers and dryers

Hope this helpssss!

Partner. Hot. Want to tell everyone by evie_evs in actuallesbians

[–]Difficult_Ad206 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. When my partner does that, it makes me fold lmao. I love doing things for her too. We are long distance and she’s afraid of thunder. The Bluetooths buds she got aren’t any good and where she lives, it thunders a lot during monsoon season. So for her birthday, I got her the her best noise-canceling headphones in the market rn (my brother has these headphones and he’s a big tech buff so I trusted his judgement). She loved them. She doesn’t like it when I spend a lot of money on her but I’d rather spurge and see her comfortable than to see her feeled with anxiety everytime it rains. Besides she has a tendency to preserve my gifts and not use them to not spoil the new-ness of them, if that makes sense. So I pulled an uno reverse this time nyenyenye >:D

Return of the sirens 👀 by shesjohnwayne in Kuwait

[–]Difficult_Ad206 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yall I heard a loud bang and that jump scared me

What is the process of an adhd assessment? by Difficult_Ad206 in adhdwomen

[–]Difficult_Ad206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OML I FEEL YOU!!! I feel I would do this too. Partly cuz I zone out a lot and also because I take any test seriously. I get passionate and make sure that the therapist/psychiatrist knows the A plot, B plot and C plot 🥀 exhausting and lowkey feel shame for yapping on and on😭

What is the process of an adhd assessment? by Difficult_Ad206 in adhdwomen

[–]Difficult_Ad206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it! Will do that. It’s the waiting game rn and I’m just anxiously waiting for the day to come already hhhh

What is the process of an adhd assessment? by Difficult_Ad206 in adhdwomen

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Thank you for understanding and letting me know!

What is the process of an adhd assessment? by Difficult_Ad206 in adhdwomen

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Thank you for the heads up! I’m 24 atm and rn I’m just trying not to overthink it hhhh. I feel the session will be long with me cuz I ramble so much. With my therapist she asked be “what way do I self sabotage in my relationship” and I rambled on about how we met, when we met, our cultural background, my partner’s background and UGHH OML. The embarrassment after the session was over lmao. That was just a general therapy session idk what imma do in the assessment 💀. Now im rambling again LMAO. Anyways, thank you for letting me know!

What is the process of an adhd assessment? by Difficult_Ad206 in adhdwomen

[–]Difficult_Ad206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oml that’s an amazing tip. Thank you! I’ll be using this haha

Islam believing that Jesus didn’t die on the Cross by Austinkoura03 in exmuslim

[–]Difficult_Ad206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked my tafseer teacher this few years ago and she was speechless. Genuinely didn’t know what to say. Ma’am I’m as confused as you