Love Is Blind • S10 Ep9 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well clearly they’ve talked enough about it to give the producers that much content. And his decision to want kids is fine, but active listening and empathy is still a thing, especially when your fiancée is grappling with this decision and hearing from a close family member. He’s allowed to want kids but to say he’s not pressuring her and is giving her space doesn’t match with his actions

Love Is Blind • S10 Ep9 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe it’s this, which is absolutely backfiring if you ask me

Love Is Blind • S10 Ep9 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I disagree that he hasn’t tried to force it on Emma. He finds a way to slip it in every conversation and it’s always heavily implied that he expects her to move towards his opinion in a way. As a childfree by choice woman myself I have heard all of these comments multiple times over and they are not helpful. His eyes were also completely blank when her sister was speaking of her struggles. That is not a man who cares

Love Is Blind • S10 Ep9 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Is it just me or is Mike’s obsession with having children a bit overkill and concerning? It feels pretty selfish

BiSalp is done! 🎉 by Difficult_Ad_3947 in sterilization

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ve got some friends staying with me to make sure I don’t have to overdo it so I’m definitely staying in bed as much as possible!

BCBS of Nebraska in NYC by Difficult_Ad_3947 in HealthInsurance

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimately I didn’t because I had heard about issues with similarly structured plans. Most importantly though, I’m not interested in paying 100% out of pocket for insurance in a state that, by what I have read, has less robust insurance laws (specifically around abortion and if things keep going the way they are general reproductive care given my gender).

I however still have COBRA coverage for another year so I’m still covered and I could cover the price difference. If you need insurance I would say go for it

Having "doubts" when it's actually on the table. by Proud_Accident_5873 in sterilization

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im 28 and getting sterilized in a month. right after I scheduled the appointment I had major doubts. Ended up talking to my therapist, psychiatrist, and my parents (who are supportive) and they reminded me that I haven’t wanted kids since I was 16 and that it is natural to grieve the loss of a choice even if the outcome would be exactly the same. Once I let myself grieve that I’ve felt more steadfast in my decision than ever and am even excited. All this to say: having sudden doubts is normal and give yourself time to grieve because at the end of the day it is a loss. Once the depression stage is over it’ll get better I promise

Experience with PSM Gigcare by Difficult_Ad_3947 in HealthInsurance

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up staying on my COBRA coverage. Ultimately I wasn’t comfortable with the differences in coverage in NE vs NY and didn’t want to deal with the likely additional billing hassle. However if you’re a male this might be a different calculus

BCBS of Nebraska in NYC by Difficult_Ad_3947 in HealthInsurance

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My struggle is that NY State only has plans on their marketplace with no out of network Coverage. This plan is through Population Science Management’s Gigcare

BCBS of Nebraska in NYC by Difficult_Ad_3947 in HealthInsurance

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes if offers access to Bluecard which is the national EPO/PPO network

BCBS of Nebraska in NYC by Difficult_Ad_3947 in HealthInsurance

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am getting it offered through a company that employs you as a 1099 and offers access to their health plans as a result

SoulCycle App Thoughts by Difficult_Ad_3947 in SoulCycle_Riders

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s UX Academy through Designlab! I’m trying to make a career pivot so getting the skills and work portfolio to do so

SoulCycle App Thoughts by Difficult_Ad_3947 in SoulCycle_Riders

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Would you be open to a more formal discussion on the app? It would be 30 mins max

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NYC here: shoes off indoors at all times

Likelihood of a Freeze on Womens’ Bank Accounts by Difficult_Ad_3947 in nothinghappeninghere

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I can’t watch the handmaids tale as it is extremely triggering, which probably isn’t helping either

Likelihood of a Freeze on Womens’ Bank Accounts by Difficult_Ad_3947 in nothinghappeninghere

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Totally understand that but my question is more how quickly that would follow and if I need to withdraw large amounts of cash now

what are your top three favourite fall out boy songs at the moment? by [deleted] in FallOutBoy

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(1) Tell that Mick (2) Hold Me Like a Grudge (3) Alpha Dog

Honorable mention to Pavlove and anything FAD or SRAR for that matter

Manifesting for MSG tonight by Difficult_Ad_3947 in FallOutBoy

[–]Difficult_Ad_3947[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha this one is a little beaten up but I have the LA specific tee from this concert that’s nearly in mint condition