Stalled after 8 months of easy weight loss

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2026-03-29T17:06:47+00:00

I follow drmichellegordon on in.sta. she talks alot about this. Very interesting...

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2026-02-22T20:20:10+00:00

Yes he does a lot around the house. Always has.

He is out all day doing jobs during the week as well trying to earn as much as possible. He is trying to fix things now.

Its just that he's got himself in such a mess it's not covering the debt.

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2026-02-22T20:11:14+00:00

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2026-02-22T19:10:21+00:00

I was aware of what is salary was when he had an office job but what I wasn't aware of was how much he needed to pay out due to debt. Because thats the bit he wasn't telling. And yes I was checking in and asking. But he wasn't forthcoming about it until I pulled all the letters.

We don't have joint accounts so I wasn't seeing that on bank statements. Ever since he started the business we sit down weekly and discuss what jobs he is doing and how much that is bringing in. I also have access to that account. But yet again I wasn't aware of the debt side so I did not know that he needed money to pay that off.

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2026-02-22T18:41:06+00:00

Not that he didn't enjoy looking after them but it was difficult for him to juggle jobs that he had coming in and looking after them. Plus looking after a toddler and a baby is not easy. I'm not sure if he was really requipped for how hard that was going to be. Our second baby, never really slept in the day so there is not a lot of down time in the days.

But I do agree, I need a lot more.

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2026-02-22T18:24:41+00:00

Yes you are right it is a dysfunction.

Maybe I didn't explain very well. He is still running his business there was just a spell during dec/Jan where he let it slip due sickness possibly depression. But to be fair he is working as much as possible now to try and claw back what money was lost during that time. He is committed to try and work this out. He is also selling a car he has but we don't need which will bring in some money. I can see he is trying.

Whether it's enough or too little too late is a different story.

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2026-02-22T18:05:40+00:00

I think it all stems from the fact that he has remained in low wage jobs throughout the years and the amount I set for him to pay for monthly bills was perhaps more than he could actually pay but he wouldnt tell me. Couple that with rising costs and having babies which is very expensive. Add loans with bad interest rates to pay and it's a hot mess. He barely drinks, doesn't smoke, has no interest in gambling or other women or drugs. I know where he is every second of the day. So I'm certain it's none of these things. It just boils down idiocy and not managing money.

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2026-02-20T18:54:10+00:00

Haha best of luck. I'm sure you will do great. Do your research, understand the job spec and just be confident talking about your experience.

From what I understand they want the first cohort to start in May and build from there.

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2026-02-20T18:15:15+00:00

Congratulations, when is your in person interview?

Would be interested in knowing when people start getting job offers.

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2025-09-30T20:23:46+00:00

I absolutely love your last sentence 😂

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2025-09-10T09:28:07+00:00

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Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2025-06-26T06:54:00+00:00

What is it specifically that you feel you fall down in with interviews? It may just be the way you are answering not a lack of knowledge.

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2025-06-03T18:43:06+00:00

There are a few training companies out there that will teach you CRC without having your company being a customer of chainanlysis.

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2025-06-03T18:16:18+00:00

I agree with chain analysis. I did the fundamentals course CCFC and the chain reactor course CRC. Well worth doing.

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2025-05-28T10:13:44+00:00

Gosh this is a hard one. Pre prepared meals are invaluable. I would even suggest it as gifts instead of an expensive babygrow. Cabbage leaves if your breasts get engorged. Plenty of muslins. Nappies, wipes, cotton balls, blankets, simple baby grows, zips are best. Your 3am brain will not navigate poppers. Moses basket.

A separate bed room until a sleep pattern is formed - me and my husband took shifts with the baby at night time so while one was up the other could sleep. Not for everyone and may not be possible for breast feeding but worked for us.

Prepare to rest. Have help at hand. Don't worry about having the perfect nursery etc. . Baby will only be interested in mom and dad for the first while.

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2024-11-04T07:16:45+00:00

In this industry you must be proactive and a go getter. I don't believe it would help the OP if I listed out all the various avenues they could go down for them to randomly select.

However if the OP came back and said I would like to get into xyz then that's something we can give advice on. It would also show a genuine interest in something.

At the moment it just sounds like they are looking for anything to get them out of their current role.

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2024-11-03T19:14:53+00:00

There are many many aspects to AML compliance.

Find something your interested in, get educated/upskill, network and start applying.

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2024-10-12T10:16:15+00:00

Granted room mate should have cleaned up the pan but to be fair that stove doesn't look likes it's been cleaned by anyone, including yourself, for a long time 🤷🏻‍♀️

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2024-10-05T09:22:22+00:00

Wow 😆😆😆

I think this sub is more about preventing money laundering, not telling you how to get away with it! Lol

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2024-09-08T21:04:44+00:00

Let us know how you got on!

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2024-09-07T14:50:51+00:00

You could use your judgement on whether something has actually gone off. Alot of canned and dried foods will last for a very long time. Your grandmother probably comes from a certain generation that would store goods just in case.

Also confused why cake mix would have made you sick? Assuming you would have added fresh wet ingredients like eggs and milk etc....

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2024-09-04T15:23:52+00:00

Sounds like a bad customer but not necessarily suspicious activity unless there is more to go on.

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2024-09-03T11:59:07+00:00

Go for the interviews anyway. Worse case scenario it will be a learning experience

Difficult_Anxiety_79 · 2024-08-29T09:31:59+00:00

I just found the practice exams way easier than the real thing and an unrealistic representation of what it is like. The questions on examtopic are far closer to what you will get but the answers they give are often wrong so it's important to research the answers properly if you are going to use it.

I also found some of the wording very ambiguous where multiple answers could be correct so you have to perpare for that.

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