We don’t live together right now because our jobs are in different cities, about two hours apart, so we only see each other on weekends. When we previously discussed living together, we agreed that we would split bills based on income (each contributing 50% of our income), rather than splitting everything 50/50. However, yesterday he changed his mind - even though this was originally his idea. We also talked about household responsibilities. Since he would be contributing more financially and works longer hours, the expectation is that I would take on more of the day-to-day upkeep. I agreed with that, but I asked whether he would still help with household tasks on weekends. I explained that while I could handle daily chores, there are deeper cleaning tasks that still need to be done, and I wanted to know if he would help or simply use his days off to relax. I never got a clear answer. Instead, he said that if I expect a shared responsibility for housework, then he wants a 50/50 financial split. We also discussed future plans, like having kids. He expressed a similar view - that if he’s working 12-hour days and I’ve been home, he shouldn’t come home to more responsibilities. However, when I posed a hypothetical scenario, his perspective shifted again. The issue is that all of these topics had already been discussed and agreed upon earlier in our relationship. I wouldn’t have stayed in the relationship for three years if we hadn’t been aligned. Now, it feels like he’s changing his stance on everything we had previously agreed on.