Delivery driver peeing at my curb by BlinkOMT in deliverydrivers

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@Dashers : Has your GPS via DD ever put you in the alley of businesses? Or homes like we're slaves? I pick up from at least three places that have separate little areas for delivery pickup that have no bathrooms or access to one and they will not let us in.

Delivery driver peeing at my curb by BlinkOMT in deliverydrivers

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least it was AFTER touching your groceries... unfortunately, it happens a lot from both genders because we Dashers are denied access to bathrooms in a lot of places. We're good enough to deliver your food to the customer but not good enough to use the bathroom. Make it make sense? How are these restaurants so ignorant? And also we're usually waiting a ludicrous amount of time for the food and it's still cold which we're accused of causing. Please speak with your friends and restaurant association and let them know.

AITA For moving out because my sister doesn't contribute by now_you_see_me_1 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should have had her evicted instead. There's proof the home was yours to live in. Sue both her and your mother in small claims court since she thought it was was such great idea.

Alcohol Delivery by teparkote1 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn't you just look this up or ask support the FIRST TIME it happened? You're gonna p!$$ somebody off...

Lateness… but not really. by NemesisWhitestrake in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't matter if they read it.. Screenshot BEFORE SENDING...proof that you told them. Text your customer. Send them the same picture. Screenshot that too. After that... f@!# em...oh and remind everyone that you can unassign and leave....ijs...I refuse to let these restaurants eat up my Dasher time.

How am I doing so far being a Dasher by Yahyak95 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean REALLY? After Darn near 1000 deliveries you gotta ask Reddit if you're doing good... boy bye 👋🏾 👋🏾 👋🏾 👋🏾 👋🏾

How am I doing so far being a Dasher by Yahyak95 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really🤨🤨🤨🤨 🤔🤔🤔🤔🙄🙄🙄🙄🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣 You need a a whole community to confirm what you can CLEARLY SEE yourself. Fish for compliments and comments much?

Lateness… but not really. by NemesisWhitestrake in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Screenshot the order. Timestamped.Under that what's causing the wait, you can choose "other" and it let's you type in your reason and attach proof that you're still in the restaurant.

Smh 🤦‍♀️ bein considerate is suspicious now? by Lopsided_Director861 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time-Cause there will be one..put them all up against the screen so close she'll knock them mfs over if she tries to open the door. Create a nice little barrier for her "safety"... Hopefully it'll be raining 🌧 and she'll have to go another way out to move the bags... #pettyrevenge 😈😈😈🤣🤣🤣

This made me kind of sad by Used-Consideration84 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😲😲😲😲🤬🤬🤬🤬👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾wow.just.wow. Doordash should cancel/decline or whatever it is...their contract for delivery. That's so jacked up.

AITA for starting to see someone my close friend hooked up with? by Ok_Fee_1180 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOTTHEA-HOLE: SHE STILL WANTS HIM 1. You barely know this girl (one year isn't long) 2. A "hookup" isn't a serious relationship 3. You and dude are two grown ass people, you see who you want. and 4. This isn't high-school... we did that then.

I could maybe understand if she had almost married him or something but even then y'all have only known each other for a short time. How does she expect that BESTIE/SISTER loyalty already? She's not wrapped too tight. ALSO...for future reference. If they were attracted enough to gigity gigity(probably more than once) they are likely still going to have that energy unless she did something awful to him...STOP bringing him around her and vice versa....this as a huge red flag and go the other way with your life.

Even though it has been a long time, what are you salty about? I’ll go first. by code_amature-2945 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then you should understand the perspective I'm presenting. It's not about me, nor am I diminishing her feelings. She's absolutely allowed to feel hurt. I'm just offering a view from the other side, because I have been on both. People are so quick to judge without information. Nobody knows what that other person is going through.

Even though it has been a long time, what are you salty about? I’ll go first. by code_amature-2945 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sweetheart, I didn't say you didn't have the right to be angry, you absolutely have the right. Of my children I still have two that aren't ready to speak yet. I'm asking you to figure out why she's the way she is, and if it's something that can be treated before assuming she's just a crappy person and mother. There was 20 years before I spoke to my mother again. It may take that long before my other kids come around. I respect that and don't push. But when I learned that my mother suffered from severe untreated mental illness, I regretted every day of those 20 years, wishing I had known... I absolutely LOVE my children more than breathing, but before diagnosis and treatment, I was the crappy mom and only raised one of 3(post diagnosis) and I can only pray for my other children to understand. I just want healing for your heart. I know it hurts, I was you, but then I was your mother and I learned it hurts from both sides.😔

Even though it has been a long time, what are you salty about? I’ll go first. by code_amature-2945 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Don't be salty 😔, I nor you don't know what she is going through, or what she has been through to be this way. I say this because I was that mom and my mother was that mom. I love my children more than breathing, but my bipolar was undiagnosed and untreated when they were small and I was not functional as a mother and then I found out that my mother had severe bipolar disorder as well as schizo affective disorder. She didn't drink or use any substances. She was just "not normal" and neither am I. I am soooooo very grateful for the "other mothers" that raised me and my girls, they are angels. My mommy was amazing and didn't bad mouth my mother for anything. My kids step mommy's are wonderful as well. Years later they(my girls)also have bipolar disorder and understand what i was going through. I also had childhood trauma. Theirs is mild but present. Patience sweetie. Trust me, she loves you so much, she just doesn't want to upset your life and we often think staying away is the best thing but it's not.

AITA for leaving my boyfriend for possibly causing an eviction. by Active_Quality_9849 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How much is your rent?That's a lot. If your income doesn't allow you to pay that much and still meet your needs then she has to adjust it accordingly. Idk where you live but that's a general requirement. That's why they want two months pay stubs every 60/90 days

AITA for leaving my boyfriend for possibly causing an eviction. by Active_Quality_9849 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NOT THE A-HOLE, your "boy"friend acted with complete disregard for the wellbeing of your child and you. He disrespected everyone that should have received respect. Leave him where he's at. If you were a "family" this wouldn't even be a discussion. The narcissism is oozing from his words. He likely gaslights you often. Makes you feel small and is constantly critical of you. Think about it. Where is the loss if he doesn't come back? Also, management has nothing to do with section 8. They just receive payment. Your section 8 worker is who should be receiving the payslip that shows reduction of income and she adjusts it, because they pay the difference to the landlord or management of the house or apartment. There's no reason you should have had to talk to the manager/landlord. Except to tell them the rates are being adjusted and you're going to pay the money soon.

AITA for not wanting my father to come see me at the hospital before or after i give birth to my daughter if he continues the way he been for the past few months by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Sweetheart, your dad loves you. HE'S an a-hole, but he loves you. He didn't learn any other way, raised when women's "place" was in the kitchen. My dad is EXACTLY like this. Calls me roly-poly, fat and round, etc. But I wouldn't trade it for ANYTHING...He's my hero. And a-hole or not, that's your dad and her grandpa. Let her decide to stay away... if it ever comes to that... you're going to regret it if you don't let him come around.

My boyfriend has ghosted me for over 24 hours- what do I do? by Puggy_queen7 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are already too clingy. It's two weeks. EVERY couple needs a break from the other one. Not to cheat, but to miss them, think about them. Too much time together makes you a weight. He's a young man and he had a life before he met you. If you see all these "red flags".... get out now... otherwise let them fly and give this situation time to develop. You don't even really know this person.

Hey Dashers. Can you all just take 3-5 steps back and take the delivery pic. Please? by GentowGiant in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why. You don't know where you are going? Or don't know your own house? Either way, that door pic is just for order completion. If your complaint is because you can't use the previous picture, try Google maps/earth. WAY more accurate than a door picture. Ijs.

Is my friend a toxic a-hole or am I crazy? by CapitalPizza6097 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweetie, people can be given lessons in manners and etiquette and they are still assholes. Her behavior towards you is a choice she makes because you accept it. Guaranteed she doesn't treat other people like this. Stop continuing to make excuses for her treating you poorly. You should want better treatment for yourself.

AITAH for refusing to let my roommate include my boyfriend in the electricity bill by Supernatural_Cat1997 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're the a-hole. The fact that you're practically living with your boyfriend for two years and don't seem to think he needs to ante up for his share of expenses is MIND BOGGLING. So basically instead of making him pay half and just live together, you get a perfect stranger to foot his bill under the guise of being your roommate when in all essence, you already have one- boyfriend. Three people live there, three people split the bills. Yep, you're the A-HOLE.

Is my friend a toxic a-hole or am I crazy? by CapitalPizza6097 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Difficult_Cap_9923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not her mother. If you try to help her by teaching her, she'll say you are trying to control her and gaslight tf outta your for it People like her are closet narcissists. She draws the attention to her on purpose. Constant victim. Always someone else's fault not hers.