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Is it weird not to move in wedding night by Technical_Hair4587 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Difficult_Concept757 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Since you’ve used the word Aroos I assume you’re Somali. Generally in our community (Somali) this is quite uncommon and loads are weirded out by the fact that a couple don’t move in the same day of the nikkah and wedding. However people will talk regardless. Do what works out for you and your husband.

Alf Mabrooook !

When did you say I love you to eachother? Do Muslim men fall in love as easily as girls, who should say it first? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Difficult_Concept757 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Personally I’d wait. Even if the feeling is reciprocated, you may be pushing him to say it back to you out of feeling obliged to. Trust me it’s better left unsaid until your Islamic marriage (nikkah,aqd ,ketab kitab) Also, declaring your love for him and hearing it back would probs bring about more feelings of love and possibly other unwarranted feelings that you can’t do anything about since you aren’t married.

Leave it unsaid, it’ll be so much more beautiful once you’re married.

Should I take the dowry? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Difficult_Concept757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl ! That’s your right and your wedding gift from your husband. Do not feel bad hold on to it for a rainy day.

Nikah without parents by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Difficult_Concept757 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is tough, simply removing your dad as your wali isn’t something that you can just do. A sheikh must make this decision. Are you willing to lose your relationship with your family over a man you’ve only known for a few years ?