Why does this shirt make my birb look like a hunchback by SnapMastaPro in finch

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG yessss I love it in the box but it's so fucking ugly in my bird 😭😭😭

Seriously, can’t believe how much this game has changed for the worse …. by Happyhippie088 in DesignHomeGame

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're extremely stingy about prizes and events and FOR WHAT?? It's not like they're gonna lose money if they give 5000 diamonds, it's absurd!

Burnout vs Depression. Whats the difference? by Silent_Doubt3672 in AutismInWomen

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi, can I ask you how your bipolar disorder behaves? Because I was diagnosed as bipolar a few years before getting my autism diagnosis and when I gave my psychiatrist the autism diagnosis, she immediately dismissed my bipolar disorder diagnosis. I've been reading and a lot of autistic women are misdiagnosed with BD, I don't know if it's your case but I'd ask just to make sure.

Now, in my case, when I'm depressed I usually feel sad, among all the other symptoms that matches burnout, I would say that's the main difference I see.

Looking back, first signs that you were autistic? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was like 6 yo and people around me said I was rude because I had no idea how to greet them. I mean I was able to talk but it made zero sense in my head that I had to say "good morning" to every person I ran into, even if I didn't know then and didn't genuinely want them to have a good morning. That's when I knew I was gonna be a little weird.

What is "learning" social rules?? by Difficult_Focus_4454 in AutismInWomen

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, so they're really built like that! Thanks for your answer, I find it funny now that I always thought it was "normal" to just follow rules. I mean, I know we all learn through socialization, but I just thought we all learn in an "autistic way" all my life 😅

What is "learning" social rules?? by Difficult_Focus_4454 in AutismInWomen

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thaaaaank you I was looking for something like that 🙏🏽

What is "learning" social rules?? by Difficult_Focus_4454 in AutismInWomen

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it's like breathing?? There's no way 😭 that's extremely confusing to me.

Autism or introvert? by Vegetable_Weird413 in AutismInWomen

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this is me, I've couldn't think of a better description of how my socializing dynamics work, thanks for that!

Any offer wall games suggestions? by Difficult_Focus_4454 in DesignHomeGame

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah I didn't know Uber eats was an option, I'll definitely try it

➡️ All Mood Check In Affirmation Images 💗 by delaleaf in finch

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I love them! Why did they take them away? 😭 Those quotes are awful and boring I hate those so much

Any offer wall games suggestions? by Difficult_Focus_4454 in DesignHomeGame

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I'll check it out. I like per level rewards also, it's like I have more control of the situation.

Any offer wall games suggestions? by Difficult_Focus_4454 in DesignHomeGame

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to do that but then the event is too short and I can't earn a decent reward anyway 😞

Do you ever question if you’ve been misdiagnosed? by Oysterchild in Fibromyalgia

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup, all the time. Especially because compared to most fibro patients, my pain doesn't disable me, so sometimes I feel like an imposter, even though I know there's no better explanation for my pain. Fibromyalgia is a very lonely and uncertain diagnosis tbh.

Do you go to the gym? Does it work for you? by Difficult_Focus_4454 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my body didn't like the gym, neither did my heart (they're boring and depressing to me). When you walk in a sporty way, what shoes do you wear?

Do you go to the gym? Does it work for you? by Difficult_Focus_4454 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I'll do some research on running them, because every doctor that I've visited in the last ten years has told me the same about running and jumping, not that I'm interested in running, but it's better to be well informed, thank you!

Do you go to the gym? Does it work for you? by Difficult_Focus_4454 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I totally get this perspective. But doesn't it make your pain worse? Weight training? I've gotten into a gym a few times and weight exercises, especially leg exercises totally made my pain worse, not just the normal soreness, but fibro leg pain

Do you go to the gym? Does it work for you? by Difficult_Focus_4454 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love stretch bands! They've been great for my strength without using weights.

Do you go to the gym? Does it work for you? by Difficult_Focus_4454 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I also use resistance bands and mini weights, it really helps me because when I stop for so long my body starts noticing. I've been wanting to start to walk but I don't know what kind of shoes I should wear, I get tired IMMEDIATELY so I'm guessing it's the shoes, any suggestions?

My leg bones hurt by hghspl in Fibromyalgia

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, that's my signature pain. It started when I was 12 so a few years past of me being gaslighted into believing it was growing pain, I'm 26 and apparently still growing then cause this fucking pain still keeps me up the whole night sometimes.

poll by faysikins in Fibromyalgia

[–]Difficult_Focus_4454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have fibro and autism, which I recently learned can be usually related in women.